2010 brides.........

[duffy]

@PunjabiRose

Yay for us and the completion of our education … it’s a great feeling isn’t it? :shoaby: Are you working?? Taking time off??? Looking for a job??

You make me feel much better Duffy about my shaadi date not being set I need to not get to hung up on the “what if’s” and just go more with the flow! If you don’t mind me asking, even though there is no shaadi date yet - what stuff have you started planning/thinking about?? (other than kapray ofcourse! :D). I was thinking about mabey starting to work on the guest list now… because regardless of if my shaadi is this year or next year… the people me and my family will want to invite is going to remain the same! Do u have any other suggestions???

OMG hahaha Duffy that is too funny that we have the same build.. AND same height!! WOhoooo… more shorties! I know EXACTLY how you feel… because I am not anorexic or anything either (allah ka shuker hai)… but my whole life I have had a high metabolism and just can’t put on ANY weight. It is strange that the clothing I wore in 6th grade still fits me.. You are SO sweet to compliment me on looking perfect in my pics!! that is WONDERFUL for me to hear… b/c it means that my sneaky ways worked. lol. By this I mean… I was wearing like 3 tank tops underneath my pishwaaz. And I made sure it was a long sleeve pishwaaz because I think my arms look too skinny!!! Shuker hai … I got engaged in the dead of winter in upstate New York where there was over a foot of snow outside …so the layers kept me warm and the long sleeves made sense! Also, the top part was kinda loose on me and there was not enough time to get it fixed… so to avoid the “clothing hanging on a hanger look” I used this gold clasp thing to make it tighter from the back! It completely was hidden by my hair and dupatta! So that worked out perfect. I think Anarkali’s are very flattering on skinny bandi’s like us… the flowyness of the bottem part is perfect to hide skinnyness and give the impression of more weight! InshAllah I want to put on some weight before my shaadi as well. Chalo yaar… we shall start this “gain weight diet” together and be each other’s motivators!!! LOL And YES - even with our hopes and dreams of gaining more weight for the shaadi… the fitting of our clothing has to be perfecttttt. Ill fitted clothing is a thin person’s worst nightmare … it tends to overwhelm and OVERTAKE girls like us… … i know u know what I am talking about!

Yeh hun, it is a greattt feeling! Im working 2 jobs at the moment!! one i had started while i was still at uni and im jst continuing that until i can find something more full time as its a part-time role and the other is a graduate placement im taking part in..but yup i feel the other guppies pain its not the bst time to tbe graduating..job opportunities seem very limited at the moment! but inshallah girls…keep trying and something will come up!!

Aww im glad i made u feel better hun jo hona hai vo hoga..just do dua that whatevr happens will be for the best and how you want it to work out..its easy to get bogged down by the lil details but just remember the bigger picture..U&Him and ur life together Lol hun im thinking of everything!! but thats probably caz im exciteable hehe but yeh thats a great idea to start with the guest list..im lucky in that the guest list will just be carried over from my brothers wedding so that should be ok..how about thinking of possible venues so that you can narrow it down to what you want and also trying to set a time frame for the wedding, i..e which season will it be in etc? that way it makes it easier when planning the different functions so you can take into account weather, time etc..bht kuch hai yaar, inshallah itll all be ok!

Haha at the 6th grade comment!! lolz, im soo glad im not the only one! Seriously u dint look too skinny in the pix, im like that thankfully i dont come out too skinny on camera! hehe the tank top trick ALWAYS works! but yeh anarkali is the way to go as u can add volume to ur figure..thats why i got an anarkali made for my engagment..hope its turned out ok havent seen it yet, my mums going to pick it up when she goes in March..ab dekho kiase bna hai..

Yup i know hun, its well fitting alll the way! sometimes if its too tight u can look even skinnier but if its too loose it jsut looks baggish..we need to strike a balance! Chalo PR how much have u eaten today?? lol the trick is to eat **often **even if u eat small amounts..lol i need to take my own advice!! haha xx