please excuse me for not being able to figure out if 1) you really want a partner but you’re not getting one 2) you are just pissed off a bit because you’re not getting any proposals
i personally think marriage is not a very big deal. i’m 23 and i am seriously thinking of never getting married. when i think about marriage all that comes to my mind is security(monetary), kids, saa-bahu conflicts, kids(now this is a nightmare), you cannot just be cool when you have kids. you have to make sure they turn out well. basically its all shoulder crushing responsibility and no fun. for e.g. if i want to climb the everest some day after i start earning, i don’t think its even remotely possible to achieve if you’re married. also there is so much to do in the world around (for our society, for our country, for humanity), there’s no dearth of work, of the need for improvement. one cannot get bored. keeping in mind all these, marriage seems to be a very small part of (if not a deterrent to) an awesome life which can easily be done away with.
ALSO i think i’ve posted the same text twice and i can’t find the delete button anywhere.