2 reasons why people ruin their lives

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Niksik June 9, 2011, 4:30pm 1

I’m talking about regular folks who have access to education and oppotunities. Yet you see some people who let life go by without experiencing any success in any area of life, be it their relationships, career, deen, etc.. They just waste their lives trying to do too many things at once or just wait for a miracle to happen.

What, according to you, are 2 reasons for that? Any 2 reasons…you could have more, but talk about just 2.

chicagoin June 9, 2011, 4:32pm 2

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marriage
Life circumstances

Desii_Fly_Chick June 9, 2011, 4:34pm 3

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one ov them has to love or marriage .. love ruins u completely ..

NomiCA June 9, 2011, 4:36pm 4

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on what criteria are you concluding that they are a failure or their life is a waste???

Decent_6Chora June 9, 2011, 4:45pm 5

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Wrong company (friends)
TV

Krypton June 9, 2011, 4:53pm 6

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lack of stability
wrong environment
little support

Niksik June 9, 2011, 4:57pm 7

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Like when they haven’t impacted their lives or anyone else’s positively, or become independent. They haven’t added value in their own lives or lives of anyone else. And I’m not talking about teh underprivileged folks here. I’m talking about adults who grow in seemingly normal homes like yours or mine.

hareem01 June 9, 2011, 5:02pm 8

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too adventurous
or too lazy

NomiCA June 9, 2011, 5:02pm 9

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We can judge only if we know what they went through…and it can’t be any 2 things only…i think more like a combination of factors…

Niksik June 9, 2011, 5:06pm 10

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Stop being philosophical and all righteous and all NomiCA. Judge or forever hold your peace !

KayZ June 9, 2011, 5:07pm 11

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one reason only, they want to do it thats why.

NomiCA June 9, 2011, 5:12pm 12

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Oh…you are right…i just read my posts again…sound so annoying like other posters here

ok..

Bad company
Some experience/ event in life (unknown to others) which screwed up their thought process.

Sara516 June 9, 2011, 5:14pm 13

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low self esteem?

rizla86 June 9, 2011, 5:25pm 14

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You mean people who had it good and threw it all away?

I don’t know, plenty of reasons, some mentioned already. Wrong company, drugs, toota hua dil, na shukri.

inspiron June 9, 2011, 5:51pm 15

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Low self esteem/self worth
Lack of a gratitude attitude-na shukri

I really do not think love/marriage stop you in life :s I think it can change your life yes but not take your oppertunities away from you

fat_spartan June 9, 2011, 6:03pm 16

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Bad company
Lack of good examples/role models

el_topo June 9, 2011, 6:03pm 17

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Misplaced sense of entitlement.
Inertia.

Muzna June 9, 2011, 6:15pm 18

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inability to see the glass as half full = na shukri wala attitude

cutefifa June 9, 2011, 6:39pm 19

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Yeh post tu mujhy apny bary main lag rahi
are you epople discussing me?? :o

chips6 June 9, 2011, 6:46pm 20

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Low self esteem
Not being able to be contented,or the attitude that nothing is good enough when it actually is,In other words,nashukri..!