I cannot talk about 2 reasons but can share about 2 things that ruin their lives. Whenever I read this hadees, I just get into an awe with the wisdom behind the words
Whoever can guarantee for me (that he will guard) what is between his jaws (tongue) and what is between his legs (private parts), I will guarantee for him Paradise.” (Bukhari)
done sir… I did not have anything bad in my mind… mat or whatever… its a urdu/ punjabi word so there is no correct spelling in english… sorry paaa jeee
I'm talking about regular folks who have access to education and oppotunities. Yet you see some people who let life go by without experiencing any success in any area of life, be it their relationships, career, deen, etc.. They just waste their lives trying to do too many things at once or just wait for a miracle to happen.
What, according to you, are 2 reasons for that? Any 2 reasons...you could have more, but talk about just 2.
It can actually be mutiple factors however I think top 2 factors can be
i) Attitude (taking things for granted, over confidence, bad manners etc)
ii) Apptitude ( the chosen field was either enforced on them or they were just not fit for that job)