Re: 2 months after marriage Husband wants a divorce
What is Ruqya?
Ruqya is treatment using the Quran, names of Allah.
OP, I'm very happy for you and may Allah keep your husband on the straight path and bless you with a happy marriage, Amin. Her update carries several lessons for us.
Re: 2 months after marriage Husband wants a divorce
sister, i am no expert but when we decide to choose Allah SWT's path then he we will test us on His own terms and conditions. All I will advice you is to leave everything on Allah SWT. If Allah SWT can put so much hatred in his heart then he will In-Shah-Allah have planned something good for you.
In-Shah-Allah when you will come out of this fiasco, you will be a better muslim.
ps. you didn't need to tell us about your past.
Re: 2 months after marriage Husband wants a divorce
I came on a public forum to get a fresh unbiased perspective on things.
Id like to take this moment to thank a few members on here for their suggestions u were really helpful!
I performed ruqya myself and the results were amazing within a few hours he is back to normal and I fly out in a couple of days. Amazing how Allah gives us such simple cures.
May Allah bless u all in this blessed month and guide u to the straight path.. ameen.
A public forum will get you many unbiased opinions...some of which you will like and some you will not. Its to be expected so don't be surprised if you read things you don't want to.
Secondly, I am happy things are back to normal for you. Sometimes all it takes is something so simple and things are exactly the way you always wanted.
Re: 2 months after marriage Husband wants a divorce
Ruqya is the only way described in Hadith to get rid of black magic. All the other peer babas doing their own thing using wierd stuff is again black magic. Apart from Ruqya there's other stuff like reading one of the kalmahs 100 times every day (I forget which one it is, 3rd one I think, this also protects u from whispers of shaitan that day, the jinn that's with us at all times). Reading (or listening to recitation )surah baqarah everyday for 40 days, and praying tahajjud and asking Allah to get rid of the black magic for u.
P.S this is the kalmah
La ilaha illAllahu wahdahu lashareekalahu lahulmulko wala hulhamdu wa hua ala kille
Re: 2 months after marriage Husband wants a divorce
I just don't believe this story. I don't think desi families even do this sort of thing. What family just lets their kid get married without families meeting and talking properly?
And if this is a real story, I am REALLY sorry you're going through this. But let's be adults take responsibility of our actions.
Sister PCG
The OP is on the other side of the spectrum ... You have been thinking things through and delaying any decision or commitment and she has been hasty in making her commitment ...
Somewhere in between is - let's say - optimal
But I can believe there are some cases where it could be real.
Re: 2 months after marriage Husband wants a divorce
Glad things r working out for u...have faith in God and urself
Re: 2 months after marriage Husband wants a divorce
Kya zamana agaya hai. You're only 25. Why such a low self-esteem to marry under those circumstances and to this obvious inadequate excuse of a human being.
*sigh
Re: 2 months after marriage Husband wants a divorce
I just realized I didn’t type out the whole kalmah properly. It’s as follows:
La ilaha illAllahu wahdahu lashareekalahu lahulmulko wala hulhamdu wa hua ala kulli shai-in qadeer.
And here’s a link for ruqyah, u just have to follow the instructions (be pak, do wudhu, face qiblah and listen to recitation of these specific verses, with belief in Allah and that only he can cure u)
Ruqyah – When Doctors Can’t Help You » Prayers
Btw theres no fast paced istikhara online type method where someone can just look at u or ask ur and ur mother’s name and fix u or tell if u r affected or not. Only Allah knows, and only he can cure u.
Re: 2 months after marriage Husband wants a divorce
So, you prayed Ruqya and now he is ok with the stretch lines and no longer accusing you of having babies before marriage with some other man?
Really people?
Re: 2 months after marriage Husband wants a divorce
Ruqya as mentioned in previous posts is treatment with Allah's kalam and the Quran is said to be a cure. Allah guides whom He wills and there is power in dua. Why do you find the possibility of this hard to believe that Allah can do anything, that His word and our prayers have impact? Wa hua aala kulli shayin qadeer. He is qaadir over everything. We believe in Allah, but many of us don't trust Him. You scorn the use of ruqya and turning to Allah for help? Neither you and all your logic and education and worldly experience nor anyone else can compete with Allah or His kalam. You can't see the errors in your own suggestion;you can't even admit to it; is this not pride? You think that a better solution in comparison would be to divorce the husband first. Your reason for this is that if he's going to make a big deal out of stretch marks, then he's not worth keeping and should be given the boot. If one person is acting the fool in a marriage, at least the other should be more mature and of sound mind. We've a duty to guide others especially our loved ones when they are wrong, not to react in the same erroneous manner as them or give up on them easily.