2 eid problem

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hey guyz im goin to pak in sept after choti eid but i cant get married until after bari eid because the prob is that u are not allowed to have your nikaah done between choti eid and bari eid , i know u can still get married but i really want a joint mehndi but i cant unless i have my nikaah done first :frowning:

has anyone heard about this or has any knoweldge on weather it is true or not defoo like sum feedback xx

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why aren't you allowed to get married in between the two eid's? :s
Get your nikkah done, have your mehndi and shadi. thats all

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never heard about this before :s

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yes havent heard about this before .. infact the shadi season starts after choti eid
why cant u get married in between both eids?

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There is nothing against nikah in any month. People from Shia Fiqh consider some months as month of mourning therefore they do not hold nikah or shadi in those months which are month of Moharam and a couple of months following it.

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Hmm I've never heard of this either. (guessing it's a cultural thing) I think that nikkah can be performed at any time, ya?

If you need a clear response though, find an Imam and ask him. If you don't have access to one in person, email one or find an Islamic board and ask!

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never heard of this...where did u hear it from?

its simply not true.

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The time b/w choti and bari eids is like one of the peak time for shadis in Pakistan.

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I dont think this is true, after choti eid the wedding season gets into full swing!

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and, says who? there isn't any restrictions in any of the 12 months for a couple to get married [nikaah N ruKhsati] there is no shara'ii reason for NOT doing so...it may be a regional and cultural thing...it may be our superstition that if we do certain things in certain months, it might NOT be mubaarak...Allah has put NO such restrictions...period!

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I dont know much about these things, but i did hear some people saying that the nikkah done inbetween choti and bari eid is forbidden and or doesn;t last forever..... and that most of the people getting married between the eids have their nikkah during the ramadan month.

Now i don't know how true is this.

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^ let me tell you, it is 100% not true! lol if Allah hasn't forbidden it, then why must we allow man to create stupid laws and make life more complicated then it already is.

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My brother is getting married about 6 days after Eid, in September, in Pakistan.

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I have never heard such a thing EVER in my life!
it would be introducing innovation in deen

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holy moly this is exactly wat i have heard az i am frm the uk ppl back home are sayin the exact same thing i have to have my nikah done in ramzan if i wana get married asfter choti eid if i dont thn i have to wait until after bari eid, molvis az well bck home say its forbidden so i just wanted to find out if anyone else actully heard abt this nothing like this exist here in the uk,

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Yep I'm from the UK and although our family doesn't believe in such a thing, one of my friends once told me about it...

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the sharia' equivalent of an urban myth.

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im from the uk and ive never heard anything like this.

maybe its a cultural thing amongst certain families?

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OMG! what is this? i cant believe how people are adding stuff like this to our religion! i can tell you this with utmost assurance that this is not true! even if this is a cultural thing its a biddat which is a huge sin!

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sounds like SHIRK to me…malarky…god im so angry at the people who spread Bull**** like this :confused: %$(£)*$£(£($