a girl havin 2 divorces need feed back plzzzzzzzzzzz
it would be great to tell us the surrounding environment of both cases.
Well she left da first husband cauz he was impotent, she wanted him to get treatment but he flatly refused, so it lasted around 5 months.
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and whats happening in the second one?
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What is your question?
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feedback from those 2 husbands? from the people? about what?
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well wht happened in the second marriage, first month was ok, after 4 months she had a fit & had her MRI done & found out she has partial seizures & a cyst in the left side of her brain since then he sends her home when ever she falls ill, mum-in-law tells her she should be thankful that they are keepin her, her parents pay for all her medical bills cauz he doesnt want to, shes very depressed & sick & is at home livin with her parents & wants out, any advise, shes really troubled at wht to do cauz her extended family think she should stay wht ever the cost but the fact is she is ill & needs support from her husband but he wont giv any. Wht should she do?
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^ Well it sounds like he isn't offering her any support at all, rather he is causing her more misery. This is not the way a husband is supposed to behave at all.
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Wow, two lousy excuses for men in her life. that' really sad. :(
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^ Even the first husband?
It sounds like karma, but I know that's cruel and I don't actually think that's what it is. I'm sorry for her.
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Cant really comment on the first one, there could be quite many factors involved. Perhaps he realized his condition and that there was no cure and let his wife free. Second one seems like a pathetc a-hole who deserved to have his 'manhood' chopped off.
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For the first divorce I do not understand why would someone flatly refuse to be treated for impotency. 
But for the second one I would agree to Jaanwar that he should be castrated , this excuse of a man is not man enough to be married to anybody other than a goat may be.
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Its indeed very sad to hear about
:(
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:(, its very sad...insha-Allah hope everything goes alright for this girl; ameen.
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soooooooo in other words u guys think she should leave her second husband,.....for her to go through another iddat is really much,she knows shes not pregnant, do u think she has to go through the whole 3 months & i think wht 10 days or somthing?
thanx all for ur replies.
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Both sound horrible, but we don't know the whole story. Is that what she is concerned about...having to go thru iddat???
serial sickos
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I dont think she should even consider being with such a spineless jerk who does not even have the ba*** to stand by his wifes side in illness.