Re: 1st cousins gettin married!!
i agree with rupay halwa, i think is wrong to do an arranged marriage between cousins, because they already know one another very well, and its hard to suddenly switch from your own family to inlaws, and yes you should try to marry outside of your clan.....
however, in my case i fell in love with him, he is my khala's son. i never knew him because i live in the states and he lives in pk, i feel like its different for us because we fell in love, and just like my parents did i'm going to keep my doors open when it comes time for kids, yes i want them to marry outside, however if they fall in love within the family then what can me and him do and its not like its wrong, because if it really was that wrong ALLAH would not have allowed it!!