thanx for all the replys!
Im married to my first cousin, and we are gettin along very well, but guess what, the only people we feel are pulling us apart is the same family that got us both together, ( both are very stubbon )
and basically are families are not even talkin, but luckly our relationship is stronger, then this but sometimes I do feel very low!! and we both want to walk away from everyone.
I wont encourage my child/ren to get married to their first cousins cause families get to involved and relationships between brothers ands sisters lost, (his parent, and mine)
likely my child is healthy.