Re: 19 year old ready to get married?
I bet this young and stupid couple beleives in Islami muhabbat (lol) which is good.
I guarantee you, no matter who says what, they will go forward with it.
Parents should realize this and act accordingly.
RC
kambakht ishq nahi stupidity aur jahalat hai yah… 
RC
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RC - how do make someone come out of "kambakht ishq"??
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A 19 year old sounds like a kid. He’s not old enough to look after himself. How will he be able to manage a family 
I know someone who got married when he was 18. The result? Divorce after 2 years. It would bea miracle if a marriage that takes place between 19 year olds lasts for more than 5 years.
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You can’t if they are 19!!!
Make sure what you do, do it to both.
You don’t want to convince one of them to back off leaving other one’s socks scared fo the rest of her/his life!
I think It can be done, by extensively talking to them. Its not gonna happen in one or 2 sessions.
Little brother use to fall in love every 6 months Mashalla he is married.(only once)
Credits to PM 
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lol @ married (only once) 
^it can last. It all depends on the guy and girl. My friend got married with her hubby when they were 19 and 21, respectively. The guy is Mashallah very mature and although at tht time he was in uni, and didnt have the best job. He, today (after 4 yrs), holds a very good position and they are both still very happy and in love!
pm, app k chotay bhai ki hogeee but u r still not married? :o
why is that?
Re: 19 year old ready to get married?
tum ko to pata hy mujh ko larkian kitni pasand heen
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really, u do? :o
i thought u dont 
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If the guy and girl in question are Muslim, then why not consider getting the two nikah-fied. Its marriage without the full list of responsibilities. It might work for their situation.
Marriage also becomes pretty important if there is a fear that the two may fall into sin unless married off.
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Nikkah is marriage. That's it. You have the same responsibilites towards your spouse and the only way out is divorce. It is to be taken seriously and not a light decision.
It boils down to the individual at the end of the day. No two couples are the same. Maybe give them some more time to think it over and get advice from their nearest and dearest.
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i find the age tag leads to many assumptions. his parent probably know him best.so it is upto them. some people are born sensible.
Ditto copy mera scene … Falling in love in a young age is like drinking a sweet poison. Well, main atleast marriage tou nahi kerna chah raha tha.. m only 18 and she is younger than me. Main tou wait kerleta 10 saal bhi.. Meray parents ko bata diya tha. Lekin us k parents ko pata chalte hi baat cheet khatam. Pata nahi kabh baat keraygi abh. 
and i was soooo obsessed abt her k bus. anyways…
What if ager ladki k parents ko pata lagay, aur woh jitni bohat baat ker sakhtay hain, khuda na Qaasta woh bhi naa ker sakein. jabh ladki k liye rishta dhoondna shuru kerein tabh pareshaan hoai na ladka, abhi se kya ho raha hai ussay. Jabh tak woh graduate ker bhi lega. itni jaldi koi shaadi nahi ho jaati.
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if they are truly in love then they should think.....wait and at least finish school before taking on each other's responsibility...marriage is not a high school funfair...where you get to play dress up....
i understand 50-60 years ago....a 19 yr old getting married was considered the norm...since the couple stayed with the parents under the joint family rule....
today...the couple must be ready to take on every single issue on their own..so if they really truly love each other...they should think about each other's well being..and take action accordingly..
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NJGAL...unko bolo apne LOVE ke zara kabab banake dikhayen. Aur agar apne dil zara nichorke thorde paise nikal sakte hein to aur bhi acha hoga. Bijli ka bill LOVE se nahin jata. Vo log paise mangte hein. :)
Too funny. 
Kababs banaa ne k liye paisay nahin hon gay…bijli ka bill to door ki baat hai. Man, that Bijli ka bill can be a real killer!
But that’s okay. I’m sure they’ll spontaneously ignite all the lights in their home with the **free-of-charge **electrical current of their LOVE.
Im 19 and Im getting married in dec .. but then again .. Im a girl and a lot more mature than the avg 19 yr guy :P
He's a kid .. u shouldnt be doing something u'll regret later .. if he feels he's ready then why not .. My sis married her husband when he was 21 and she 18 ..
but it’s love peeplan!Let them enjoy it. It’s cute that he is not into just dating and stuff which is what most guys his age would want and not longterm commitment.