What do you say to a guy that is 19 and thinks that he's in LOVE and ready for a commitment to a gal at this age.
He's still in school - she's still in school and no way ready to be married financially. (personally I think emotionally they are too young as well)
How to convince them both that waiting is probably a better idea?
well what i think is that boys and girls must have to be married upto the age of maximum 22 becoz at 18 boys get young and girls get young at 16. and it is only the education system which has been ruining the ppl so badly that even in the age of 25 or 26 a student completes his education and when a student will complete his education at such an age then when will he get married coz he needs job also and also it takes time and years to settle in job and so on and he also has to fullfill his homes responsibilities as well the marriages of his bros and sis so if such a system will be then ppl do marry after 30 year age which also is a great cause of violence against women becoz afterall there is a specific age of marriages and if one just completes the education in that age then he will in the end get wives with children.
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so our system is wrong and yes under 18 marriages must not be done but it must also not get late after 22.