Re: 19 year old ready to get married?
I think if theyre both really serious about it, you should get them married. I mean you say the girl wouldnt agree to go behind everyones back and get married but...love makes you do crazy things. I know a family who had to get their son married at 18 because he was planning on eloping otherwise. He was 18 and the bride was 17, he was about to start uni and she was still in college. But somehow they made it work, they live in a joint family system, both work part time so manage to scrape enough money together to still do all the things married couples do and dont have to worry about the house or bills as his parents cover them. Theyre really happy mashallah so sometimes things like this can work out. Hell its better than them eloping and disgracing their famililies.