He's so old. Ew. She's 18 and that's just too young. Forgive me for being so negative but i feel the only reason he married her is the gori factor. Also the NZ factor wasnt too bad as well.
It was the person with "the gori factor" who came to PAK to marry the guy; not the other way round. Surely she must have found some virtue in him to warrant such a decision!
I think it is not much surprising that she came to marry a guy in Pak! Who wouldn't?
Imagine what it must be like for those of us desi guys living in the west. All the attention of goris/westerners. Aha...
No wonder some desi girls are always grumbling that we don't pay them much attention.
I think there is a lot of truth in it as it create a "demand/supply gap" in the "marriage market"....!
What the hell are you on about? If you had a brain cell you wud realise i was saying people from britan or america etc. People who DO NOT live in pakistan. Do you understand it now? Or shall i break it down more for you?
And btw Gori can be in a negative way too. SO what if that girl went to marry a pakistani guy frm pakistan. Why is she a idiot? Its ridiculous. Let her or who ever do what they want!!
Break it down further. I want to appreciate the extent of your complex. :) However, before you bleed-out from needless exertion, I would urge you to read:
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"I think the girl is an idiot. She would equally be an idiot if she was an 18 year old phillipino who ran away to helsinki to marry her viking prince."*
It was the person with "the gori factor" who came to PAK to marry the guy; not the other way round. Surely she must have found some virtue in him to warrant such a decision!
Pakistani guys will do ANYTHING to go overseas. He met her on the internet and impressed her and probably convinced her to get married to him. Then they went back to NZ to live there. He got was he wanted.
Pakistani guys will do ANYTHING to go overseas. He met her on the internet and impressed her and probably convinced her to get married to him. Then they went back to NZ to live there. He got was he wanted.
And who are you to pass judgments about what or what not "Pakistani guys" can do?
She is hardly a twelve years old who was duped. She made the decision out of her own free will. Period.
Pakistani guys will do ANYTHING to go overseas. He met her on the internet and impressed her and probably convinced her to get married to him. Then they went back to NZ to live there. He got was he wanted.
Some guys have that in mind "to get something they need by hook or by crook".Why is it wrong? Secondly she is not bad looking at all and "decent,kind hearted" person!
Break it down further. I want to appreciate the extent of your complex. :) However, before you bleed-out from needless exertion, I would urge you to read:
"I think the girl is an idiot. She would equally be an idiot if she was an 18 year old phillipino who ran away to helsinki to marry her viking prince."
You aint worth my time..... NEXT!!!
And who are you to pass judgments about what or what not "Pakistani guys" can do?
She is hardly a twelve years old who was duped. She made the decision out of her own free will. Period.
I know pakistani guys. I have talked to and gotten rishtas from many of them. Including my own cousins, to friends of my brothers. They're all the same. They'd do anything for going overseas. It's disgusting how desperate they are when it comes to going to the US, UK, or in this case NZ. She is 18! And trust me, at that age girls can believe anyone that shows an ounce of sympathy towards them. He took ADVANTAGE of her age and immaturity level and she married her. HE got what he wanted and she got someone to talk to/make her feel beautiful.
Some guys have that in mind "to get something they need by hook or by crook".Why is it wrong? Secondly she is not bad looking at all and "decent,kind hearted" person!
^^^My point exactly. Yahooo I'm sure you get my point after reading this response.
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If desi girls can go back home to get their rishtas done, why cant a white girl come to Lahore and marry? I mean there were plenty of guys in NZ but still she went for this guy.She has gone through this life changing journey.must have thought!
You aint worth my time..... NEXT!!!
HAHAHAHAHA idiot.
HAHAHAHAHA idiot.
I know you are!!.....nexttttttttttttttttttttttt
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Why are some girls assuming that this white girl is foolish? or is not rational in some way?Lived there for 6 months.The guy was also not poor or some desperado!
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oh and btw... who says she 'ran away' to lahore? :-S
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i'm sorry but i don't think it's fair for anyone to call the girl foolish or say the guy was just desperate to go overseas. would i ever travel halfway around the world to marry someone i met online? probably not. but unless you've gone around the globe to marry someone from a different culture, don't pass judgement.
she did what she thought was right, as did he. if they're unhappy later, that's their own problem. if they're still happy later on though, what exactly is wrong with that?
i'm sorry but i don't think it's fair for anyone to call the girl foolish or say the guy was just desperate to go overseas. would i ever travel halfway around the world to marry someone i met online? probably not. but unless you've gone around the globe to marry someone from a different culture, don't pass judgement.
she did what she thought was right, as did he. if they're unhappy later, that's their own problem. if they're still happy later on though, what exactly is wrong with that?
U r right!
I know pakistani guys. I have talked to and gotten rishtas from many of them. Including my own cousins, to friends of my brothers. They're all the same. They'd do anything for going overseas. It's disgusting how desperate they are when it comes to going to the US, UK, or in this case NZ. She is 18! And trust me, at that age girls can believe anyone that shows an ounce of sympathy towards them. He took ADVANTAGE of her age and immaturity level and she married her. HE got what he wanted and she got someone to talk to/make her feel beautiful.
Ok, so just because, as you claim, you got rishtas from "many of them" you became expert on the mentality of Pakistani men. Nice. I am sorry I know a few such people myself but none of them has been afflicted with a "going overseas" bug. Could it be that they are well off enough to enjoy a comfortable lifestyle in their own country or that they are well educated? I am certain that such a well educated person, no matter how "desperate", can apply for immigration to NZ-or, for that matter, Australia and Canada-and get it. Marrying a gori/desi settled overseas is hardly a requisite for a life of bliss abroad!
Eighteen year olds are not so immature who can be easily taken advantage of. Heck the guy was not even present in the country to be able to threaten retribution if she did not marry him. Hopefully she considered the pros and cons of making her decision but the fact remains that she married him because she CHOSE to. Besides, since the girl in question is reasonably beautiful, I think it is ridiculous to assume that could have found no one in her native country to "talk to/make her feel beautiful."
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how old is the *lucky *guy?