15 things you should give up to be happy

Found this interesting article. Although I am very happy mashaAllah but can work on few of those. Basically you need to give up on everything :hehe: khair for me I need to work on 4, 7, 15 specially.

  1. Give up your need to always be right.

  2. Give up your need for control.

  3. Give up on blame.

  4. Give up your self-defeating self-talk.

  5. Give up your limiting beliefs about what you can or cannot do, about what is possible or impossible.

  6. Give up complaining.

  7. Give up the luxury of criticism.

  8. Give up your need to impress others.

  9. Give up your resistance to change.

  10. Give up labels.

  11. Give up on your fears.

  12. Give up your excuses.

  13. Give up the past.

  14. Give up attachment.

  15. Give up living your life to other people’s expectations.

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All good points :vivo:

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Seb, didn't you just get married...?

15 things you should give up to be happy

^ Lol yeh I did. No need to read too much lol. It's an interesting read.

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  1. Give up your resistance to change.

  2. Give up labels.

  3. Give up on your fears.

  4. Give up your excuses.

  5. Give up the past.

  6. Give up attachment.

For all other points you could just say give up on peple. :smiley:
People are over reated. tust me.

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:omg: he is going to be giving up on whole lot more…

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:hehe:

Well the article basically tells us yo give up on evrrything :bummer:

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The article simply says to take Banwaas.

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It's the Ode of the Newly Wed Man.

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should work on 11, 13 , 4 :chai:

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Very nice points

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too much to give up :bummer: bachay ga kya baqi? :smack:

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Give up the past?

I don't agree with this.

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^ possibly means let go of any negativity from the past and move forward?

PS - Out of respect for rule #1 - I could be wrong

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No

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6,9,14 NEVER

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then how would you be happy? stewpid article. :snooty:

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he is about to be in pain too pretty soon :chai:

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Story of my life. :/

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Let's all give up happiness and live in sorrow.

I'm too cool for happiness. Sorrow is the new happy.