Re: 10,000 kee balian ya kangen
and besides very very few ppl wear real gold now, especially in pakistan, b/c of the high rate in crime and robberies, not to mention the prices are way too high for anyone to really afford… thats why you see alot of sets that have little bit of gold but more beads…I think up to a few years ago it wasn’t really appropriate/accepted to wear artificial, at least for married women, much less brides…like it HAD to be real sona, but nowadays you’ll even see new brides wearing huge artificial sets or earrings when going out, so it’s getting more acceptable.
anyways on topic, most of the ppl who have big bashes and stuff, are doing it just for hteir own khushi… i believe i said this in another thread, but unless you’re marrying that person and you (or your family) has to foot hte bill for it, why should it bother you how others are celebrating the most important moments of their lives? Not everybody is exceptionally cheap with every single aspect of their lives, we all have things/moments that we decide are worth the extra money, in weddings and life…
Nobody says that saadgi won’t work in today’s time… i think whomever wants to have a simple wedding is more than welcome to it, and that’s good for htem…but that doesn’t give them a right to act holier-than-thou b/c someone else wants to celebrate. You don’t like it when people will assume that you’re being kanjoos by having a simple wedding so why say that someone who wants the opposite is bragging and showing off their wealth? 