Zulam on bhabi

[Roshni]

@nadz123

Roshni, i can understand your post is serious and its affecting you, thats why you came on here, some people here just dont understand, what doesnt affect them they think is trivial. i dont understand why some of these people even bothere coming here, its a forum for advice, and not to pick on someone or ridicule them because of the problem, also you may have noticed that they tend not to answer the question asked…sigh, anyway

i think firstly, why dont you talk to her, she doesnt sound so bad, how do you know she called her husband to say that, from the post it sounds like you and her dont talk,. am sure you do, talk to her. be straight with her, rather than keep quiet, iof she has fits, well am sure she doesnt have them all dya long, im sure you can have a conversation with her, without being rude, but to the point.

It is harder being the bahabiliving with someone elses family, small things can sometimes seem a whole lot bigger, just because you think your the outsider. maybe she resents you living there as well, its not normal for everyone to live together, inc sisters of the husband who are now married as you are…

thanks for the post. i prefer to ignore bullies.

i dont hate her infact i tried to be with her and i understand her medical condition. even if she does have a problem still she needs me to stay as i have to take her to her appointments and other places as she is nt allowed to go on her own and even drive.
she has very controlling personality. when i tried to talk to her about an issue she very smartly goes off the topic and doesnt come back to it. we are frank but she wont talk on issues that we have.

my point is not and neither i am saying she is negative. i was just concerned with the word ‘zulam’. to me it has different meanings than others probably.

i dont care wat she says to her husband and its her right to say watever she wants. some times words are more painful than weapons. somone else who heard them talking (outside) the house told me. ok