Your bhabi did not even reply back to you and said that will prepare quickly even then you have a problem. I don’t know what you would have done if she had given you a nice spicy reply.
She called YOUR BROTHER …I think she called HER HUSBAND. She can say whatever she wants to him and if she is wrong HER HUSBAND can correct her. It’s a mian biwi ka mamla …who are you to check what she says to her husband and what she does not ?
When you do dishes of TEN people thats alot of work but when she cooks food for 10 people it’s nothing …wow !
If you share the chore of cleaning the house …you are not doing any ehsaan on anyone , you are living there with your hubs and kids and you & your family are equally using the house.
You are not even kind to your own mother , she has a fractured bone and you are allowing her to wash clothes and change nappy of your kids !!! You are responsible to take care of your mom before anyone else.
If your bhabi is spreading rumours about you in the whole family then confront her. Ask her why ?
If she gets fits she is equally dangerous for your kids too ask your brother to move out so that you all can live in peace and without any danger of being attacked by a woman who gets fits.
Just tell us one thing…if you were living alone and not in a joint family wouldn’t you be doing all the house chores yourself ? cooking , washing , cleaning everything.
I agree with what Pakistani Princess said. I think you should appreciate your bhabi.