Shab beeti, chaand bhi Doob gaya, zanjeer paRi darvaze mein;
Kyon der gaye ghar aaye ho, sajni se karoge bahana kya.
kitna romantic shair hai na?
ab darwazon main zanjeeron ka rivaaj to khatm huwa? We have lockers and people got extra keys. na sajni ko sajan ke aane jane ki fikr na saajan ko bahane ghaRne ki zaroorat.
So what do you think we lost this romance? or it is still there? sajnis are still investigative?
Or do you think it was / is not romantic… khwamakhah ka pooch gach pareshan kar deti hai?
pahle to yeh bataaiye k:
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aate kahaN se haiN yeh mazaamiiN Khayaal meN?**
bhai, pinD meN raheN agar aise romance kaa chaskaa hai to…maiN ne to decide kar liya is she’r ke paRhne ke ba’d k shaadii ke ba’d apne aabaaii gaaoN ke aabaaii ghar meN rahuuNgaa jiske baathroom meN bhii zanjeer [kunDii] hai…
the world we live in got new concepts like privacy, personal space.. do you think in presence of such thinking, one can feel romance in such investigation.
the world we live in got new concepts like privacy, personal space.. do you think in presence of such thinking, one can feel romance in such investigation.
look at the other side of the coin. :)
the thing is as per your scenario that hubby and wifey have their own private comfort zones then in that case there will be love lost…they will NOT bond well…hubby comes late, has dinner, goes to bed while wife is already asleep…next morning he/she goes to work and this vicious cycle continues…it’s NOT fiction, it’;s fact in the west where husbands and wives have meaningful get together on the weekends alone.
in my scenario, when hubby comes, rings the zanjeer, wife gets up, they spend tim e together on the dinner table…go back to bed…talk about their day a littkle before falling asleep…at least, there is some inter action between the spouses.
isii liye ab talaaq kii sharaH meN izaafa ho rahaa hai kiuN k miyaaN aur biwi ko aapas men lagaao paidaa karne ke liye saath nahiiN miltaa…
…honeymoon ke ba’d no time for each other. isii liye ab sunne meN aane lagaa k honeymoon ke ba’d fauran talaaq.
the thing is as per your scenario that hubby and wifey have their own private comfort zones then in that case there will be love lost...they will NOT bond well...hubby comes late, has dinner, goes to bed while wife is already asleep...next morning he/she goes to work and this vicious cycle continues...it's NOT fiction, it';s fact in the west where husbands and wives have meaningful get together on the weekends alone.
in my scenario, when hubby comes, rings the zanjeer, wife gets up, they spend tim e together on the dinner table...go back to bed...talk about their day a littkle before falling asleep...at least, there is some inter action between the spouses.
isii liye ab talaaq kii sharaH meN izaafa ho rahaa hai kiuN k miyaaN aur biwi ko aapas men lagaao paidaa karne ke liye saath nahiiN miltaa...
...honeymoon ke ba'd no time for each other. isii liye ab sunne meN aane lagaa k honeymoon ke ba'd fauran talaaq.
so why people still expect attention though they have observed changing life styles?
Shab beeti, chaand bhi Doob gaya, zanjeer paRi darvaze mein;
Kyon der gaye ghar aaye ho, sajni se karoge bahana kya.
kitna romantic shair hai na?
ab darwazon main zanjeeron ka rivaaj to khatm huwa? We have lockers and people got extra keys. na sajni ko sajan ke aane jane ki fikr na saajan ko bahane ghaRne ki zaroorat.
So what do you think we lost this romance? or it is still there? sajnis are still investigative?
Or do you think it was / is not romantic... khwamakhah ka pooch gach pareshan kar deti hai?
Mere ko lagta k poochna batana achi baat hai
yehi to piyar hai k
agle nu tuadi fikar e te tuanu ohdi
fikar k baad hi to dosti hoti hai apnaaiyat hoti hai
