We heard so many stories about zalim shohars, did you guys ever come across a couple where you see biwi as zalim?
I am not talking about nagging or demanding wife, I am talking about the abusive wife, physically or verbally or both.
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Yes. One of my uncles is married to one. At current he refuses to eat at home after twenty years of abuse and now doesn't speak to her.
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You'll hear zaalim biwi stories when I get married.
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Yes. One of my uncles is married to one. At current he refuses to eat at home after twenty years of abuse and now doesn't speak to her.
are they still married?
You'll hear zaalim biwi stories when I get married.
Passionate biwi is a zalim biwi if hubby has a headache
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why would shohars let anyone know?
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Most of the shoher hazaat keep mum about internal issues even if its about them getting a beating (physical or verbal) at home from wife because its not men's nature (and also they dont want to nikaloo their izzat ka janaza)
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Yup, still married, they're never gonna divorce, they're too stubborn and old-fashioned for that. First she used to emotionally black-mail him by threatening to kill herself all the time, then she just used to swear at him and call him 'not a real man' and whatnot. And she used their kids A LOT to threaten him and stuff.
Now he's like, 'I gave her the best years of my life and she's never appreciated me'. What really did it for him is that he recently was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and she didn't bother looking after him, then he just gave up :(
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Yup, still married, they're never gonna divorce, they're too stubborn and old-fashioned for that. First she used to emotionally black-mail him by threatening to kill herself all the time, then she just used to swear at him and call him 'not a real man' and whatnot. And she used their kids A LOT to threaten him and stuff.
Now he's like, 'I gave her the best years of my life and she's never appreciated me'. What really did it for him is that he recently was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and she didn't bother looking after him, then he just gave up :(
:(
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Most of the shoher hazaat keep mum about internal issues even if its about them getting a beating (physical or verbal) at home from wife because its not men's nature (and also they dont want to nikaloo their izzat ka janaza)
Most of the biwis should do that too? Are you saying that hubbys are badnaam cause if they are zalim, their wives make it public, - but if wives are zalim, hubbys keep their mouth shut
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i think i would be a zaalim biwi. verbally abusive :(
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Well, male domestic violence IS an under-reported crime y'know. Just ask half the guppies on here.
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Most of the biwis should do that too? Are you saying that hubbys are badnaam cause if they are zalim, their wives make it public, - but if wives are zalim, hubbys keep their mouth shut
Badnaam husbands are well known coz begums tell the story loud and clear most of the time (and some also beef it up). Baadnaam BVs are not well known because most of the husbands keep mum - well for the most part it hurts their ego (in addition to whatever was hurt by begum)
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Yup, still married, they're never gonna divorce, they're too stubborn and old-fashioned for that. First she used to emotionally black-mail him by threatening to kill herself all the time, then she just used to swear at him and call him 'not a real man' and whatnot. And she used their kids A LOT to threaten him and stuff.
Now he's like, 'I gave her the best years of my life and she's never appreciated me'. What really did it for him is that he recently was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and she didn't bother looking after him, then he just gave up :(
that is sad.
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i think i would be a zaalim biwi. verbally abusive :(
nothin' wrong with that!
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i think i would be a zaalim biwi. verbally abusive :(
they say ke shakal achchi na ho tou baat achchi ke le aadmi - but I guess as a biwi, you are going to ignore that advice.
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they say ke shakal achchi na ho tou baat achchi ke le aadmi - but I guess as a biwi, you are going to ignore that advice.
:D
i can't even make a comeback for this topic..
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^ Koi nahi. we still are friends :D
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aKHHHHHH thoo.
friends? psht.
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You get a divorce if either person is constantly zalim, or you could do the next best thing and take your biwi and move to Saudi Arabia :) , then she'll have no outlets (this works in both ways it causes zalim biwis to behave and for biwis who receive abuse to become silent), you gotta love those Saudis always looking out for number 1.