Re: Zaida baat mat kia karo.....
Ira, from watching my brother, I favour the other stance, that more talk is better.
My brother was raised in England, he got engaged to a girl in Pakistan. He had a long engagement, one that lasted around one year.
During that time they spoke every day on the phone, they emailed each other every day, they spoke to each other on MSN everyday and they sent each other text messages on their cell phones every day.
In short, during their year-long engagement they got to know each other so well that they were literally best friends even before her rukhsati was held.
And that strong friendship has led to what does seem to be a strong marriage full of love, dosti and mutual total respect.