Zabardasti ki shadi

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TLK what are you trying to prove is arranged marriage a forced marriage? or Are you trying to prove fored marriagaes can work? or arranged marriages are not love marriages :hehe: because love marriage mein to bari qurbaniyaan deni parti hain :chai:

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what a great example and you hit the nail when you said (in bold). That is exactly what I am trying to say ..

Yes UZ apaa, that is what I am trying to prove (in bold) :smiley:

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Re: Zabardasti ki shadi

forced, loved, or arrange…all kind of marriages suck :chai:

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please dont say tht im already in two mind’s about it:S

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Experience or observation ?? :smiley:

James’ and Tony’s :konfused:

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Wanna talk about it? :smiley: There some guppies here who have specialized in this field :stuck_out_tongue:

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Re: Zabardasti ki shadi

theres a hell lot of difference b/w zabardasti ke shaadi and arranged maariage -

zabardasti is when you don't have any other answer except yes

  • yes i would go for a love marriage - becaz i find it difficult to marry a perfect stranger. live next 30-40 years with a person whom i do not even know :)
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when you talk about a life of 30-40 yrs together .. does it make a difference if you knew that person for few months before marriage or not at all

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yes at least at the start of the new life - it matters -

especially to people who do not like a change

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No one likes to change Iraj but let me tell you this .. my marriage was a love marriage , we knew each other for 3 years before we got married .. but we both learned things about each other that were sometimes surprising and very rarely though but other times a little shocking.

We had to adjust and compromise .. today I can tell you that both of us changed a lot ..

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Re: Zabardasti ki shadi

:hmmm:

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shadi har haal mai compromise hi hai arrange ho zabardasti ho ya love ho

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^^ Rida now we are talking .. cause what you said is so true

so my question fpr everyone is .. if every type of marriage requires roughly equal amount of compromise at the end then why so much resistance against forced marriage ..

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adjust and compromise

Saraiki Shayari
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Not 3, 4 years :emmy:

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oh… i didnt read the title of this thread properly - i thought it said ‘Zardari ki shadi’ lol! - i was like :eek:

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lol, zardari ki shaadi..

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  1. Do you see a difference between arrange marriage and zabardasti ki shadi.

Ofcourse!!! there is 100% difference....i dont see why this is even a question!?!....

  1. What are the pros and cons of arrange vs love marriage and what would be your choice.

Arrange Marriage:

PROS

  • excitement...lol i think/ feel that when u havent interacted much with yr better half before marriage there is bound to be excitement abt getting to know each other after marriage...finding abt their habbits n what not....

  • lesser expectations

  • u have your family backing n now if god forbid anything goes wrong u can always have their support

CONS

  • since you dont know the other person well enuff with whom u wl be spending yr life with...u r bound to be super nervous abt how u wl manage esp the first few months living with them

  • u mite nt find out abt the habbits they have which turn u off but than i think adjustment and adaptability is the key to marriage!

And for love marriage the pros and cons turn opposite....As for me i would prefer an arrange marrige transformed into love! lol :D