If you’re having a wonderful relationship with your partner, so that stressed out people would know that there are more good relationships than the bad ones. Prove that we’re true love birds and love doesnt hurt. - even if it hurts to some people its always temporary. All we remember is our love’s comfort, and happiness. So what are you guys waiting for, post your wonderful life’s experiences and you can write good things about your inlaws too. The people who are having some bad times in their current relationships can come to learn some nicer things too from i hope experienced people of GS. More appreciable if you guys write about the sweetest gestures you do for eachother.
Starting from myself, i’m having a real wonderful relationship with my fiancee and inlaws - Alhamdulillah!
Hurry up people! Let the world know that true love still exists.. and lets all put smiles on the faces of too stressed out and depressed people of this forum.. and make it the most successful thread ever too.. lol [just kidding, no of posts don’t matter - really..]
1 more thing if you don't want to share your experience then atleast write that you're in a healthy, happy relationship.. so we can conclude some average about good vs bad relationships.. I hope there're more successful relationships than unsuccessful ones.
Oh, You didn't offend me my dear.. i read your thread where you said "you hate your husband" and right after that i saw a boy starting a new thread "i don't want to get married" the purpose of starting this new topic is to bring back true smiles on some depressed faces.. but so far i've not seen anybody taking this serious? are we only here for advising people who're worried about their problems, I think thats why we're "badnaam" that pakistani marriages have these saas bahu and miyaan biwi issues but in west people live happily and they're more understanding etc..
I hope people will speak up, and share some views in a light mood.
I have an excellent married life. My wife takes care of my mother more than my sister can. My father in law is just like my friend. Really on all fronts I consider myself very very lucky. Been married for last ten years before that she was my girl friend for 9 years.
Its not that we dont have our differences but we have learnt to ignore the differences.
To all the guys who are having trouble I have just one suggestion, listen to your wife more closely and never make your ego an issue. If you are wrong admit it.
To all the guys who are having trouble I have just one suggestion, listen to your wife more closely and never make your ego an issue. If you are wrong admit it.
thats the base of a happy and healthy relationship... if a man were to just listen to his wife and try to understand what she is saying (should be the other way around too)... it makes for a very healthy and open relationship!
my husband does the very same and its his best quality that i greatly admire.. niether of us have an issue with saying im sorry and we both listen to the other rant... him more than me cuz i am living with his family.. so he has way more listening to do than i do :D
ive only been married a yr and few months so not as experienced but so far its been a wonderful and joyous ride full of arguments and happy times... the best thing is, we are moving forward and making our relationship stronger along the way... he's the best!
I've been with the love of my life for 4 years now who is now my fiance. We're both very happy Mashallah. I get along with his family just fine and he gets along with my family more than I get along with them lol. We both can't wait to get married and start living together.
I too am very happily married....10 years yesterday :) there are many other happy marriages that I know of here on GS so perhaps not all have responded but they ARE out there.
I too am very happily married....10 years yesterday :) there are many other happy marriages that I know of here on GS so perhaps not all have responded but they ARE out there.
I am very happily married and we have a 12-days old cute little daughter. Just like any normal family, we sometimes get upset with each other but we immediately talk and if we don't want to talk about it right away, before we go to bed, we talk about the issue/difference and solve the problem. I don't remember a day when we went to sleep without our hearts clear of any anger/misconception and I believe that is the key to a successful healthy relationship.
Those relationships fail fairly fast where the spouses don't discuss their problems/differences with each other and let the distances come between them by shutting down the communication channels.
I am very happily married and we have a 12-days old cute little daughter. Just like any normal family, we sometimes get upset with each other but we immediately talk and if we don't want to talk about it right away, before we go to bed, we talk about the issue/difference and solve the problem. I don't remember a day when we went to sleep without our hearts clear of any anger/misconception and I believe that is the key to a successful healthy relationship.
Those relationships fail fairly fast where the spouses don't discuss their problems/differences with each other and let the distances come between them by shutting down the communication channels.
I loved when i read this, really a good tip. I will remember this too. thanks shikra!
