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nia_khan:**
*i didnt comfortable telling every single thing what i was doing towards islam. *
Nor do most people… I will never accept that stand. I know that’s how things are taught in Pakistan and other Muslim countries. I have never lived in Pakistan so I see, and read this, with much curiosity.
How am I supposed to show my kids Muslim role models? Not by how they look but by their actions? I can not show many in my community. They all like to keep quiet about all the good they are doing… but for some reason… we all shout about the problems facing us. How confusing I find this, I can’t begin to tell you. Anyways… I am not like most Muslims…
*Some things should be kept in silence, cause if the deed itself is good people will find out. *
This reminds me of a time I was talking about total lack of volunteer services at the local mosque with a friend of mine. I was telling him why doesn’t the local mosque recognizes someone as a volunteer services “director” or some such thing like the churches do around here? For example, we need volunteers to help keep the yard clean, clean the inside, visit the Muslim sick in the local hospital, laison with the local hospital in providing help in providing halaal food for those Muslim who ask for them, drive the charity collection in the neighborhoods, collect and develop materials for the local jails, the managing the open house that we don’t ever have, etc. Well, he kind of smirked at me and said that, “Well, why do yo need someone to tell you what to do. Why don’t you just go ahead and do it on your own… whatever you can?” Well, Nia, I kind of sat there quiet for a few seconds and thought to myself that he has no idea what he is saying. I found his response so ludicurious, and he is a religious person, that I have never discussed things like these with him.
Thing is that we lack organizational approach to any issues that we are facing. There’s a lot we can learn from the Indians and the Jews on this regard. They understand what it means to band together for a cause. I see them take issue with something and then I see ourselves burried with the idea that we should expose a good thing if we do it. Let others suffer until someone figures out that someone has done some good…whenever that truth surfaces. But it would be awfully powerful and effective if the same thing is coordinated, performe and made an example of.
*Besides that, sawab ka kaam kar key batana nahee chahaey. *
I subscribe to the hadith that if charitable work is exposed and shown as “an example” to others for the purpose of deriving similar actions then it is allowed. And why shouldn’t it be, to begin with?
If you wanted to make a change you could have continued without someone being on your side.
I did… for months. I just stopped a month ago.
- Besides that this thread was basicaly about how women are being treated in Musilm worlds.*
Same difference.
*“Peace” thats what Islam teach us. *
That’s what it is.
*after that they developed the feeling of hatred. Infact, I hate both sides, Muslim newspaper curses at western world and western world claims Muslim terriorst.
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I haven’t found a Muslim who hasn’t said what you have said. My question to them becomes… so what do you think should be done? Answer: What can be done? Everthing is in the hands of Jews… or whatever. Then I think to myself… mmmm…
*I cannot change the entire world, I cannot change the prespective of every single Non-Muslim. But i can change those who are around me. *
No, you can not. You will get only so many on your side after year that you could probably count on one hand. But, on the other hand, if you… I hope you gain that much more power… .for the sake of all of us.
*My fight started with the rights of women, Muslim cultures have treated women like a piece of ****. *
Right! Funny thing is that these women are kept in subjugation by the ones who follow the Quran and sunnah. I used to be visited by these jamaatis who’d come to my area. Sufice to say that I have not seen one jamaat come my way in the last 3-4 years. They have learned to black list Mr. Jannus’ house. I know they go around the town. But, they better not come to my home… bunch of idiots!
*I will raise my voice from western media too. thapar ka jawaab, laton aur ghooso sey don gi. *
The problem, Nia, is that unlike you, a vast majority of Muslims is not capable of understanding that we can raise our voices in the media… that’s where the battles are fought… battles for the hearts and minds. You are absolutely correct in saying this. But the real affect is laid when you have a whole lotta others who believe in what you are doing and do the same thing. It is far, far, better to manager such an approach as a group then hope to fire a “sosha” and hope that someone will “see the light of the day”. On the contrary, it is better to call together people and discuss the situations, solutions, and ways to implement those solutions. Team work.
*My very first start was, writing an article on women in islam soon that will be published. *
How about you push your article on this topic to as many of the media outlets as possible? You don’t have the time to do that. But someone else who’s with on a single approach can take on a portion of the work. It’s like a fist that, when closed, can strike like a hammer or, when open, can only slap.
I dont care if someone joins me. But inshallah i will give this fight a good end.
I hope you go for a KO. Lot of others have started their fights… look around… can you see them?
*And this is just the begining Agey agey dekhey hota hai kia
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I wish you the best of the luck. I have been down that path and know what you are undertaking. I do really wish you do what many have failed to accomplish and or perform.
*When we go up there we all have to answer our own deeds. *
That is so true. But many suffice to believe that believing in their hearts that somethings are just plain wrong, saying with their tounges (to “each other”) that some things are just plain wrong… is enough. I, somehow, don’t believe in that. I just fail to see what becomes of that behavior.
*WOmen need to stand up for themselves and tell Men to back off. *
Check my response here:
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Muslims have to stand up and let western world recongnize the true meaning of islam.
Like you said… it only matters what you, individually, can do. We don’t have the right to tell others what to do. We can only suggest. So, I understood what you said earlier. But is this a wish you are expressing… 'cause that’s where it stays and ends: a wish.
Muslims have to Re-Read Quran Shareef and understand it with meanings so alot of ignorant people can learn something.
Bail kay aagey been bajaoo gi? You are asking those who do not believe in what you are saying to do something they are not interested in? There are ways to tackle problems… through the legal system, through the civil system, peer pressures, protests, media, boycotts, etc. etc. etc. When enough people of a similar thinking come together then things have a way of changing.
you mentioned power to change the world, ‘we’ muslims have the power to change the world. One person alone cannot change the entire world but yeah few people. Allah didnt give one person burden of the entire world.
And that’s what I had been trying to say and prove.
Do as much as you can to help those who are in need.
Yes, I do.
*In other words, If you see something is wrong, dont just sit there and do nothing. *
But as a good believer who understands he has no power to change anything… doesn’t Islam give tell him to, alteast, detest the injustice in his mind, heart and by his tongue? That I do. You are saying I should do more? How?
{i]But you cant be sitting in new jersey ( i think thats where you are) and worry about chinese Muslims. Allah sees everything
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Hay… people!!! Hear this? Now, there’s another Muslim saying the same thing.

Jannu bhai you got pretty emotional in your reply. Which is good but not logical, there are several Muslims who are wrong too, dont forget that.
Not “several”… “majority” as I have seen in my real and virtual life. Logical… hmmm… matter of perspective. My is totally confined to Muslim sphere.
*…Nahee Jab baat yaha tak a jati hai then you dont look at who is hindu, who is christian or who is jewish or etc. *
Yup… you’re right. Done that too.
Doesn’t the Quran say that we are sent as His vice-generants (sp) and that we are to stop the bad and promote the good?
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… I have words here that I will not say… insaani sharafat kay bahar hoN gay.
But I know what you are saying Nia. You understand me. I don’t want to work as a lone voice… I don’t exist as a lone voice. Where I live, I was the only Muslim caller for over 2 months on the local radio shows. It wasn’t in the 3rd month? when I began to hear other Muslims calling in. I guess my efforts need to be on those around me and in the mosque… I’ll be damn if I can get more then a handful of people to understand that if we band together and raise a concerted voice in the local media, we might be heard… Believed? That’s not what I am shooting for. Be heard… first… that’s step one.
I just wanna see others now… even the local community has gone dead… while we stand in the quicksand. Our only hope is the generation that is born here, will rise up here, and then fight for Islam as they should. Long as there are people alive in the West that were born in the old world and migrated to the West, we will not see much change. They just have too different ideas on how to go about certain things. But I understand… they are taught by the social, political and economical circumstances they grew up in.
I am waiting for our children to grow up and take up the flag of Islam from us.