Type casting is such a russian roulette especially in Pakistani setting, women here often fall for the wrong type, but dating and living together they can decide that this really wasn't their type, trying to judge a personality merely by looks is so immature, I got type casted when my family took me to Pakistan for the rishta parades and I got so much rejection, I am very muscular and broad and the personality type associated with that is Ghundas, dense, aggressive, intimidating, etc. I am none of those, I think I have a fairly high intellect and I am kind, caring, loving and gentle. I clean the house, cook on a regular basis and play with my little ones and have seen some really skinny and geeky guys getting arrested for family violence, a lot of skinny guys might not be safe bet, insecurities can be disastrous in a relationship, look for a confident guy, because confident guys who feel secure about themselves make good husbands and fathers.
Type casting is such a russian roulette especially in Pakistani setting, women here often fall for the wrong type, but dating and living together they can decide that this really wasn't their type, trying to judge a personality merely by looks is so immature, I got type casted when my family took me to Pakistan for the rishta parades and I got so much rejection, I am very muscular and broad and the personality type associated with that is Ghundas, dense, aggressive, intimidating, etc. I am none of those, I think I have a fairly high intellect and I am kind, caring, loving and gentle. I clean the house, cook on a regular basis and play with my little ones and have seen some really skinny and geeky guys getting arrested for family violence, a lot of skinny guys might not be safe bet, insecurities can be disastrous in a relationship, look for a confident guy, because confident guys who feel secure about themselves make good husbands and fathers.
It most definitely is immature. Though, a very built, muscular guy would have me intimidated too. If he doesn't show depth of character and intellect early on, I would end up seeing him as shallow and high in testosterone until he does show those characteristics.
For example, I know I look like a simple/innocent goodie two shoes. If I want people to take me seriously and recognize that I can seriously challenge them intellectually and call their bull****, I need to at least let some streak of intelligence show early on, or I get type-casted as the simple one with no opinions. It is really annoying when people either decide they love you or don't like you based on an image.
^^If people can't read you, you can use that to your advantage. If people find out about your intelligence they get guarded or intimidated. In order to grow you have to step out of your comfort zone on a daily basis and try new things. It really is important to learn the personality types, there is the director, socializer, thinker and empathizer, my partner is an empathizer, they can't say no
and you ask them to do something for you and they will say yes, they eventually get overwhelmed and get taken advantage off. We had a chat and she learned the strength and weakness of the personality type, and unfortunately says no quite often, so no garam rottis on demand.
It most definitely is immature. Though, a very built, muscular guy would have me intimidated too. If he doesn't show depth of character and intellect early on, I would end up seeing him as shallow and high in testosterone until he does show those characteristics.
Why would you be intimidated? Men are so nice and friendly to women. Even the built and muscular types and/or the ones who are very attractive.
The fair skin thing is kind of true. Even in the west, fair skin is associated with innocence and tan skin is associated as sexy. Just look at some of the VS ads.