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if you were to change someone’s attitude, what do you do to do that?

share your ideas or practices which work.

best,

Dushwari

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I would tell that person politely and try to show them examples. Allah states in the Quran that we should invite people to Islam with wisdom and that is what I would try to do.

Call to the way of your Lord with wisdom and goodly exhortation, and have disputations with them in the best manner; surely your Lord best knows those who go astray from His path, and He knows best those who follow the right way.
[16: 125]

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Well, it depends on what kind of attitude it is.

Kindly elaborate a bit more.

Thanks.

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double post

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nothing....initially i gonna change mine. but then when that person will be frustrated to see someone same as him/her, then he/she will definitely gonna review his/her attitude.

so if that person really really care about me then he definitely gonna change his/her attitude.

if not then i better not waste my energy/time on that person, n be the one I WAS. :)

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Lead by example.

WHATS wrong with a christmas tree?
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Why do carve people according to our hanker?

We should be the one learning how to cope with some one ‘s diversity and divergence . Just handle it Mates.

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Attitude;
The important and decisive factor in life is not what happens to us, but the attitude we take toward what happens. The surest revelation of one's character is the way one bears one's suffering. Circumstances and situations may color life, but by the grace of Allah Almighty, we have been given the power to choose what the color shall be. The effect that misfortune, handicap, sickness and sorrow have upon life is determined by the way in which we meet them.

Khush Rahein........

-Raju Uncle

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You can't change anyone's attitudes. Only they can change them IF they want to.

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I totally agree.

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