Re: Your spouse as ur best friend!
The intensity level for people involved with their spouse romantically since the beginning is amazingly higher then being involved with your best friend. At first it doesn’t seem much different but take a closer look, a couple romantically involved since the beginning may have arguments and they would be of high intensity, where as being friends before calms people down and takes that intensity away. And it goes the same for love, what you experience is in romantically involved spouse is quite intense. So it comes down to what works for you? 