My friend and Collegue of other nationality a Muslim, young and with a good profession , but , single of age 25 years.
As natural wants be tied with a beatiful (in Character , believes , Health and spirits) girle.
He was chatting on Yahoo messenger , a girle with a Muslim name from the United States of America comes on line to him this December 2009.
They got introduced with each others , he came to know she is a coverted Muslim in her 14 years age , studying in her 12 years studies.
They communicated further and exchanged their views , my friend got impressed and asked for her hand directly, she were reluctant initially but later on agreed for it.
She is now fully convinced that If she would marry , she would marry him and in this connection , she is going to apply for passport in USA this march.
She says “it is upto you , you want me come to you to UAE or you come to USA , we shall settle for marriage”
they have done vedio, audio and Text chats since last one and half months.
After giving this background , now the question comes.
My friend put this question to me to consult him
Should I proceed for it ?
What could be optimum way and where we meet and marry ?
Needless to say my opinion, but, do look from GS friends opinions , would forward the same to his Email.
why on earth would anyone want to marry someone who they have never met, don't know anything about thier lifestyle, family, values and be willing to jump half way across the world to do this is beyond me.
The marriage if happens, is not going to last for more than 3 months... IFF they have hidden ambitions, plus if they have hidden some aspects of their lives.
Else, if they have been truthful, it may go a looong way. And then, why the wait? Go for it. And experience of a lifetime.
(Plus, getting to know each other, western style... then that's like getting to know everything...in and out. I guess that option is tossed outa window... which it should have been.)
They've chatted online for a month, and jus bcoz he's impressed with her online chatting he wants to marry her. How desperate is this guy? Erm as a good FRIEND i suggest you tell him NOT to get married. Or at least get to know her longer than a month. Everyone is amazing after a month you have to be with them for a full year to actually see the real them! This is ridiculous seriously!
i cant be more sincere than this.