YOUR SINCERE SUGGESTIONS...... PLEASE

Lifestyle Relationships
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Calmly tell your wife "I'm surprised that you would doubt my loyalty to you. If I wanted to cheat on you, I would go out of my way to hide things from you. Instead....from the very beginning.....I have been very open with you about my coworker. I've told you who she is and what she does. And even when you saw her picture on my facebook account.....I never attempted to lie to you about her identity. Instead I confidently and truthfully told you who she was......because I have no guilty conscience and I have nothing to hide. Similarly, I have hidden nothing from this coworker about myself. She knows I'm married and that I have a child. Keep in mind that I work with her. If I remove her off my Facebook list.......things can get awkward at work. A marriage is supposed to based on mutual trust....especially if your spouse is being very open with you and is hiding nothing. Please reflect over what I've said. I'm hoping that our relationship is not that weak that a mere picture of some woman i"ve already told you about can shake it up."

Say this to her calmly. And let her reflect over the situation and her response.

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redvelvet is right
calm ur wife and if she wants to read ur mails let her do that.

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wow thats the nicest thing ive ever heard u say since ive been on GS! i never liked ur remarks but i guess its a change for once ;)

anyways- sorry to hear about your situation buddy. But it was a similar story with me as well, My fiance works in a japanese company and hes surrounded by japanese men and women and in the "corporate world" you have to go out for dinners or places with your boss or collegues (for brownie points) especially if you have a director position in the company. He gets emails on his phone and personal emails but it was always concerning work. And now adays many companies look at people facebook inorder to see their background. So i wasnt adjusting to it and i felt very uncomfortable that he would do so much for these japanese people. But he talked to me and made me reason that this is america and the corporate business world. he talked to me about his meetings, events and dinners when ever he was out. I felt comfortable because he spoke to me about it instead of brushing me off and saying im being insecure etc etc. He is so loving and speaks to me about anything that bothers me.

So brother, i suggest you speak to her and remind her its all work. talk to her about your day and discuss things with her so she can gain that "work trust" and you can feel better about sharing your day with her. and honestly yes, little things like these can cause petty unecessary issues in a relationship. Good Luck :)

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am i the only one in this world who doesn't use facebook

KAHAN MER GAI SAAREEEEEEEEEEY
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YAY!!!!!!!!! Now I'm not alone. I too don't use Facebook.

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seriously ya mera dil rakhney ke liye keh rahi ho:hinna:

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I kid you not, Karnani. I’m serious.

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First of All Many Many appologies for my late Response , It is because I purposely did not log in at Home.

Secondly I am Very Very thankfull to GS brothers and Sisters reprensented by following IDs on GS forums.

Zobia , Lady_lama , Namaan , Angel EyEs , CricketPlaya2 , PSquared , JanuJia , Mabrook , MCpendo , Zena_uk , Mirch , redvelvet , Pakistan GIRL , Sali786

and for You People I can Only Say.......... JAZA K ALLAH (May God reward you).

While I was reading You people replies , Tears from my Eyes could not stop and I am really Very Very ThankFull to AlMighty Allah for having Such SINCERE people on the VIRTUAL NETWORKS around me.

Ya, Towards the Problem solution I have made some Conclutions and Decisions.

Decision :. I will creat New Email account and May be Facebook account so to avoid in Future such misconception.

Conclusions :.

  1. I need to have very strong and Open comunication with my buddy (Although I have it but It needs More enhancement ).

  2. Namaan, ........... your Point do exist in Husband wife Relation , I may need increase the Frequency, LOL.

  3. I should not tell my personal things to others.

  4. I should keep Office File confined to Office and Home File Confined to Home.

I think The MOST IMPORTANT thing among us is ........

MUTUAL TRUST , which we should make More STRONG.

and Thank You very very much once again my Sweets GS Brothers and Sisters.

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u two girls pm me ur email n I will invite u to facebook Asap. facebook is a virus everyone should taste atleast once in their lifetime haha

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Aww ur wife is so lucky MA. May Allah keep ur married life worry free IA.

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I know reality sux :smiley:

But thanks, I’ll try to be more polite :k:

Great. But make sure that one day she won’t tell you … ‘ajee kabhi jaan choor bhee diya karo’ :smiley:

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^lol @ jaan chore bhi diya kero" i'm sure she won't say that or Entisar will run back to FB

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^^ :rotfl: … well you never know … women have weird mood swings :smiley:

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LoL.........

So ,

Point No. 5. Should Keep Balance In LOVE ....... HEHEHEEHHEHE.

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AAMIN..............

~~~Missing Someone~~~
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in our relation i’m the chipku person. he has to say"kabhi jaan bhi chore dia kero" :cb:

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Naaaaa … balance in Love … so booooringggggggg … isn’t it :smiley:

hahaha … nice … he is one lucky person. Got tell him that :smiley:

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bola tha. wo manta nahin

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^^ Oh than he must be really lucky :wink: … :smiley:

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Someone must have recently told the wife some insider information on Filipinos.