Agreed !
I know someone from extended family who got married almost 2 years back , it was her 2nd wedding. She even had a child from her previous marriage. Her 2nd marriage was done the way as if it was her first. I don’t know her personally but I feel the groom’s side of the family also made her feel like as if it was her first. I remember she had all mayoon , mehendi , barat & valima. She even had her barat day makeup done by some very well knows makeup artist.
Its what you want and feel that matters. Whatever makes you happy!