Re: your personal Diaries....
Ladies just look at it this way ... suppose u'r hubby owns a secret diary and he writes it every day ... and won't let u look at it ... how u 'll feel ?? off course ur first thought be 'he is hiding'
as they say curiosity kills the cat ... i would say don't make u'r spouse curious or else he/she might start hulusinating :)
I am not saying he is this type or that type ... but its better to be on the safe side :)