Does anybody keep a private, personal diary or blogs for putting your thoughts and frustrations? Does your husband/fiance get annoyed with it because it’s only for your eyes because in other matters you both share everything?
Or do you let him read it freely?
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Nobody keeps a diary or has a private blog here?
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I do, it sits in the middle drawer of my dresser.
Fortunately I donot have a man snooping around 
If I did, i’ll tell him to bugger off, its none of his business 
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my blog on GS , my hubby doesnt knw i hve it , what he doesnt knw doesnt harm him
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my husband knows about my personal diary and also about the blog i used to have here...
but he never bothered looking for those...
so i am pretty comfortable having my personal dairies...:)
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but I mean if your husband/fiance finds out about it, would you let him read everything or is it just for you?
Plus is he the type to get pissed about the privacy issues. I'm just wondering because that's one thing that's only for you and you only so if the matter comes up, what would happen?
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i have a blog (not here) and he has the link to it. i also keep a blog mainly only just about us and our relationship, writing down daily things that occur between us and he likes to read those :)
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hah mine wud surely check bt i wnt dt blog to b abt me where i can vent n gt honest opnions from ppl dt dunno me wont be jugmental bias or js plain horrible
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hah mine wud surely check bt i wnt dt blog to b abt me where i can vent n gt honest opnions from ppl dt dunno me wont be jugmental bias or js plain horrible
Hopefully he would be understanding and not freak out.:D
and he would be ok with reading all the frustrations and the venting about the relationship? wow that's good for you.
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I have one of those diaries with the lock on it and i'm just wondering what mine would do if he ever found it. I'm thinking he would get pissed big time:Dseeing the lock.
But it's just for me and my frustrations and thoughts on everything that happens around me. Some things you would prefer to keep to yourself right?
I usually tell him every tiny thing that's on my mind but still I always need my lil diary.
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but I mean if your husband/fiance finds out about it, would you let him read everything or is it just for you? Plus is he the type to get pissed about the privacy issues. I'm just wondering because that's one thing that's only for you and you only so if the matter comes up, what would happen?
i dont have any diaries or blogs but once i asked him what if i have one would you like to read? he said NO....no privacy issues with him.... :)....even whenever i start checking my email n stuff, he will simply leave the desk... he dont even open my purse if i ask him to get me something from it... he will bring the whole purse to me. on the other hand he is totally open to me
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Ladies just look at it this way ... suppose u'r hubby owns a secret diary and he writes it every day ... and won't let u look at it ... how u 'll feel ?? off course ur first thought be 'he is hiding'
as they say curiosity kills the cat ... i would say don't make u'r spouse curious or else he/she might start hulusinating :)
I am not saying he is this type or that type ... but its better to be on the safe side :)
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You know if you leave your stuff like diaries and mobiles lying around, then the chances are your significant other will have no desire to go through it.
Its when you start hiding things that the other person becomes suspicious or intrigued.
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You know if you leave your stuff like diaries and mobiles lying around, then the chances are your significant other will have no desire to go through it.
Its when you start hiding things that the other person becomes suspicious or intrigued.
True Adra!
I have a journal. If hubby sees me writing, I usually share it with him.
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diary was my best friend all through HS and college....til i got married.. now i have a human diary.. even though he probably didnt sign up for that :@:
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diary was my best friend all through HS and college....til i got married.. now i have a human diary.. even though he probably didnt sign up for that :@:
well that's just so nice for you that he listens like that. That's how it should be :)
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he has no choice.
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if i had a diary, it would be a diary for both of us, we would share EVERYTHING, i would never ever wanna hide anything from him nor do i think there would be a need to…and let’s say i had one, if he were to get pissed and wanna see it, i’d be sooo happy about that…i would LOVE it if he was all protective and stuff…i might just fake that i have a diary just cuz i would wana see him get all protective…but that’s just me 
…my fiance is actually the strict protective kind, i love it..al hamdu lillah.
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Im piling them up - who knows my A lettered better half would like them or not 
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who has the time to write diaries, besides id feel crazy writing to myself, sounds like an emo thing to do
i wudnt mind reading someone elses diary tho, theyd be so screwed