i am posing this question to those who are committed, engaged or married…
and i need serious answers
do you have a partner you always desired for…or a total opposite …and if he/she is not what you were looking for ..then how do you deal with them, your heart and your attitude with them…
and have you ever ditched someone very nice and loving and shareef and rich and what not…for some strange reaons of yours…?
Re: Your partner
About Ditching...yes I have...reason being I still have soo much to do. I just cannot commit myself for next 3 yrs.
Re: Your partner
yeaps, i got what i was looking for… well when we first spoke, i thought “no way!!! he’s so notmy type…” but then as we talked more and got to know one another…i realised he was exactly my tpye and the right person for me 
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sadzzz....was he your parents' choice?
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^ nopes... we just got introduced by a mutual friend who didnt really know either of us very well...
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and evil you are quite confident han....right now you can choose but after 3 or 4 you youserlf would become a choice....
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i am posing this question to those who are committed, engaged or married.....
*Non of em ... *
and i need serious answers
Hope So
do you have a partner you always desired for....or a total opposite ...and if he/she is not what you were looking for ..then how do you deal with them, your heart and your attitude with them......
Nah not able 2 figure out wat actually i need ... I deal with my attitude ...
and have you ever ditched someone very nice and loving and shareef and rich and what not...for some strange reaons of yours....?
*Yeah 2 avoid probz ahead ... *
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I got what I was looking for. He is funny, caring, gentle, sweet, thoughtful, intelligent, respectful. And he has a British accent. 
I did say no to guys who were perfectly fine. And I’m not really sure why. Partly cuz I had him in mind, and partly cuz I just didn’t feel like I belonged with them. Perhaps that would’ve changed with time. But I’m happy with my husband.
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I got EXACTLY what i was looking for when i got engaged to him!!! n when i got married he was MUCH MORE than what i wa slooking for!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
but now....................at this point maybe i don't think he's all taht no more but my friends still envy me..........
but i acn't excatly ask for a refund now..........
actually thats quite mean !!!
he is still perfect i just can't seem to see it no more as such!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Your partner
He is WAYYY better than I could have ever imagined and asked for...hmmmmm I want him so bad that i cant imagine him not being what i want. There is always a reason why you dont like the person the way you did when you met em, probably try to fix it first.
Re: Your partner
everyone has to at least once in their life right? Sooner or later BUT b4 I do bcome a choice of someone else, I actually want to make sure that I am still standing on my own feet comfortable enough to walk around and Insha’allah thats how it will work with me :k:
Barbie gurriya, I do sound confident right now b/c I worked damn hard for it and I still am and for my liberty and me being independent I will keep on working for it 
Men are secondary on my list!
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:k: I agree.
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^^I think being confident in oneself is a BIGGIE when you're involved with someone. This affects the way the other person sees you, how you deal with situations and problems, and also your outlook for the future. If you're not confident enough about yourself, how can another person make up for it??
Anyways, back to the topic. If I were to have met dearest husband in a different setting (i.e. school, social events), I probably would not have thought he was my type. But the more we talked, the more I liked him. He was not exactly what I THOUGHT was my type, but turned out to be far more than I could have ever prayed for, mashAllah!! So I guess what I mean to say is, keep your eyes open to everyone, and don't limit yourself to only certain types of people.
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Alhamdulilah I got an amazing husband. He's loving, caring, unique, has a great personality and a BIG heart. Mashallah
Re: Your partner
^
And I got a ditto copy of all that …
on a second thought i think I’ve got the original n you got the copy 
Re: Your partner
stop making all the heart broken girls jealous here 
PCG will come out from any corner any minute disagreeing with all that :k:
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MashaAllah thats alot of happily married woman. A somewhat seldom sight amongst pakis, or so I thought.
Anywhoos, I dont have anything to add to the thread, sorry that u had to waste ur time reading this totally useless post.
Re: Your partner
Barbie do you really expect someone to discuss her/his sufferings??
HA: Alter your routine babe, look for little things that would intensify the FIRE :D
If need "keemti mashwara" dial +911-IQ-THE-ADVISOR ;)
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lol i dont have a clue cuz im not married lol and waaaaaaaaaaaaaay far from dat stage l
but seems dat there arr alot of happy women here lyk DBD said
good good may u always stay happy
ameen
Re: Your partner
when u gotta ditch..u gotta ditch