Re: Your parenting style
I have to agree with TLK.
I often do what he does instead of any of the 3 options mentioned.
I will let her finish her program (becuase I don't like to be interrupted if I am doing something and I will give her the same courtesy) because the room can wait to be cleaned for another 15 minutes.
Then I will make her join me in the room while I clean up. Invariably she ends up either helping me or doing it while I sit and watch and keep her company. Sometimes she just needs a boost.
Hubby thinks that is spoiling her but I think she should be able to expect that much from her parents.