Your life partner’s profession

[bizz]

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@Attia

maddy it is not about money but about education.. a family with 2 ppl earning is wayyy better it shows that both of them are educated and can lead their own life :)

What a contradiction.
People tend to drift away alot and while focusing on earning and education, they forget the values of their close ones.

[smilestar]

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@Attia

maddy it is not about money but about education.. a family with 2 ppl earning is wayyy better it shows that both of them are educated and can lead their own life :)

i think we just may have to agree to disagree. it is not necessary for both spouses to work to 'show' that they can lead their own life. i believe if the guy is capable of handling the family finances..then he should be the one doing it. yes, if it is necessary then sure..both of you can work. and if you're newly married and the girl has nothing to do at home..sure work..keep yourself busy.

but once the kids come - i'm a firm believer that the wife should stay home and take care of the kids, their upbringing..and take care of the home. but hey..that's me..

[smilestar]

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@mAd_ScIeNtIsT

tinkle tinkle ← The sound of pieces of maddy’s heart falling to the ground

LOL.. I’m such a drama queen

Umm… drama king

At any rate, my heart is still fully intact The above comment was for comedy purposes only

who said i’m married?
and if the comment was made for comeday purposes, what’s with the anger?

[mAd_ScIeNtIsT]

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[smilestar]

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^ :-|

[smilestar]

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:-|

[fghd]

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uncle bhaaanday aap khana paka laitay hain?

[Ur_Angel]

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Attia and Smilestar challo ache bacho ki tarha aik dusre ka haath milao and b frends lol my teacher used to say that to me @ school wenm i used to kick this boy in class

Neway id lyk my hubby to be… educated, know family values, know the rights of his wyf and family mmbrs and bass we live hapily eva after

[mAd_ScIeNtIsT]

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:-|

[Princess_Fiona]

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@smilestar

i think we just may have to agree to disagree. it is not necessary for both spouses to work to 'show' that they can lead their own life. i believe if the guy is capable of handling the family finances..then he should be the one doing it. yes, if it is necessary then sure..both of you can work. and if you're newly married and the girl has nothing to do at home..sure work..keep yourself busy.

but once the kids come - i'm a firm believer that the wife should stay home and take care of the kids, their upbringing..and take care of the home. but hey..that's me..

hmm as far kids .. i agree that a wife should stay home to take care of them.. but once again,, it is not a must...
A wife studies as hard as a hubby does.. so why waste it.. why not work.. if ur kids are old goes to school.. then hey start working again.. but again depends on hubby if he allows.. i focus more on hubby's well then my own :)

[fghd]

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Attia I do NOT want a doctor :(

[smilestar]

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@Attia

hmm as far kids .. i agree that a wife should stay home to take care of them.. but once again, it is not a must…
A wife studies as hard as a hubby does.. so why waste it.. why not work.. if ur kids are old goes to school.. then hey start working again.. but again depends on hubby if he allows.. i focus more on hubby’s well then my own

yup ..agreed. when all the kids are older and gone to school…sure, why not? it’s better than sitting at home and getting all creaky and old..

and ur angel - we weren’t fighting sweety…just some goood ol’ fashioned debating

[Daagh]

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[Princess_Fiona]

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@bizz

What a contradiction. People tend to drift away alot and while focusing on earning and education, they forget the values of their close ones.

again buzz that depends on the couples... :)
nearly half of my family's women work,,, i see no changes in respect :)

[Ur_Angel]

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@mAd_ScIeNtIsT

ahem ahem!

[Princess_Fiona]

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@evilmastermind

Attia I do NOT want a doctor

then can we exchange

[Princess_Fiona]

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@evilmastermind

Attia I do NOT want a doctor

then can we exchange

[mAd_ScIeNtIsT]

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Ideally I think a wife should stay at home after kids... but only if its possible to provide what else the family needs on a single income. It's why I'm a megafan of the joint family system. The joint family empowers dual income families through leaving a safe home environment for the kids (ie with the grandparents).

My personal priority is making sure my kids go through private education, as I did, to make sure they have access to the best teachers. That is very pricey, and could be very challenging on a single income (depending on how my career goes). So... I'm in favour of stay-at-home mothers, unless it is a hinderance to my kids getting quality education.

[bizz]

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@Attia

again buzz that depends on the couples…
nearly half of my family’s women work, i see no changes in respect

Thank you for summarizing all of your posts for me. ya know i am too lazy to read them all

[mAd_ScIeNtIsT]

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@Ur Angel

ahem ahem!

ahem!!!