Imagine your mother gives you the freedom to choose your wife. Why mother and freedom? Well because all the women on this website and in the world know, we are merely slaves of our mother and we can’t do anything independently. So lets humor ourselves with such dreams. Right we have the freedom to choose our own wife. Your options are:
A) The funny and social type. She Dresses well. Knows how to take care of herself. Enjoys going to clubs, and can hang out at the bar. She is flirty and good fun to be around. She isn’t a slut, she is faithful but due to her bubbly personality she attracts men around her. She doesn’t mind the attention that much either.
B) The other is religious, studious and the kind that spends the average night out with the friends for dinner and then back home. No clubs, no alcohol and certainly no boyfriends. Feel free to define her as a hijabi or not. Whatever rocks your boat. Lacks the “attract all men” persona and keeps to herself around the other gender. However due to the lack of male interaction she can be clingy or difficult.
C) The slut down the street.
Who would you choose and why? Is your pick the opposite of you? Please take time to explain.
How about the B option with*she is faithful but due to her bubbly personality she attracts men around her....*Thats how I'd define myself; dont see anybody around me who would care; so this hypothetical situation is just that......:(
Adeeba I am a little confused. You a guy or a gal? And yes this hypothetical. But it is an issue some men have. Some men like women who aren't clingy. Others don't like their significant other being the life of the party and having other men around her at all times. So the discussion is open.
D. The women who don't bother to attract men but get jaws dropping without being bubbly. And yes, these ones do not enjoy masculine attention they just have to deal with it
As for personality - she's either your friend or your mistress - never a wife (because the very word wife is boring and mundane... consider her your friend or your mistress, it'll do wonders for your marriage)
My thread. I decide what I forget and don't forget.
Jaanwar my dear friend, of course I want an answer. Just because my posts have a bit more flavour than the mundane posts we see here, doesn't mean we can't have a good discussion on it. :D
And correct me if I am wrong, but a girl can be the best thing in your life, but if she is clingy, you are gonna get out of that relationship rather quickly are you not?
Either way, A B or C. Forget D - its one of those figments of an over active imagination.
Either way, A B or C. Forget D - its one of those figments of an over active imagination.
A rarity you obviously haven't come across
a woman like that will take a lot of convincing before she will agree to marry you - sometimes a few years
but it doesn't end there - you spend the rest of your life trying to prove yourself to her - your career won't be the only challenge once you get a woman like that
but since you are clearly not up to working to get such a female the likelihood is you will pick A
And the character assassination starts. Only 2 threads and I have already made enemies. Yay! I still got it!
Now my dear if a woman takes years to convince that we should get married, she is way to high maintenance for me. I prefer low baggage low maintenance types. And frankly you are giving me too much credit. I am more of a type C kinda guy right?
But I have to ask which type are you? Type A by any chance?
if I was type A my mother would have been the happiest woman in the world
so now we know you go for Type C when will you propose to the slut? make it quick because being the low maintenance type they may just get picked up with a bigger offer - say a man with a fatter wallet
Ohh an old member returning. Now we all know I as a typical Pakistani male won't propose to Type C. Rather I will use her and then get married to some girl from the village and make her life miserable.
I am surprised by your question when you already know the answer.
Ohh an old member returning. Now we all know I as a typical Pakistani male won't propose to Type C. Rather I will use her and then get married to some girl from the village and make her life miserable.
I am surprised by your question when you already know the answer.
sighz
my point CM in adding category D was to tell you that a woman can come in between A and B
she can be interesting with a personality that draws people without being bubbly (just for the record bubbly females and I just don't mix - hence my NOT being type A)
she can be a mistress and your friend, its a proven theory but most men wont talk about it
a woman can be your friend, a supportive confidante who you always want to talk to and yet she can also be a passionate lover (who you cant keep your hands off and vice versa - if she belly dances for a hobby kudos to you for finding her)
the same goes for women, they can find a friend and lover in their husbands, its about building the connection, physical and emotional, but it is something that works both ways
Imagine your mother gives you the freedom to choose your wife. Why mother and freedom? Well because all the women on this website and in the world know, we are merely slaves of our mother and we can't do anything independently.
What century are you from MAN? These days guys don't ask - they TELL their mom who they are going to marry.
..so this is not an issue 
