Your insecurities and your relationships

[Reha]

Re: Your insecurities and your relationships

@Sahar02

Do you think that your insecurities affect your relationships?

Do you feel you are particularly defensive or closed off to a specific person because s/he makes you feel uglier, dumber, poorer, etc? Do you feel this way even if the other person does not consciously make you feel this way?

Or do you feel that you have any insecurities that inhibit you socially in a general sense, keeping you from going out and meeting with people? Are there personal experiences that have led you to prefer keeping to yourself due to your insecurities?

Insecurities to a certain degree are common and normal. Everyone has things they don’t like about themselves or are sensitive about.

If you meet someone or have someone in your life who likes to remind you of those insecurities quite often…then that person is not a friend. I’ve run into a few characters like that and have found that usually the issue is that they have so many of their own problems…they’d rather make someone else the focus.

I don’t think insecurities should inhibit people because we’re all flawed…we’re human and you need to remember that. There’s no such thing as a perfect person.