Re: Your husband thinks you aren’t intelligent enough?
So what things are YOU an “expert” on? Are you able to keep up on conversations regarding current events? What topics does your husband bring up specifically where you lack knowledge?
Well…you should be doing that anyway…no? Do you work? Are you a student? What do you all day that occupies your time? My personal belief is that if you don’t want to be treated like an idiot…then don’t act like one. And yes, part of coming across as being intelligent is “keeping up” with what’s going on in the world…constantly reading/educating yourself and working on your ablility to analyze situations/topics.
Focus on YOUR interests and become experts on those…however, if your husband has certain topics/hobbies that he likes to talk about…it certainly won’t hurt you to learn more about them so you can carry a converstion with him about those…not only does it show that you’re intelligent…but it also shows that you love him enough to learn about HIS interests too. 