Your husband thinks you aren't intelligent enough?

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Re: Your husband thinks you aren’t intelligent enough?

@AbraCadabra

I usually get the impression from my husband that I know nothing. He being in a different country, having travelled a lot, technologically advanced in knowledge, working in a good organization knows much more. He doesn’t flaunt about any of this but his interest in what i have to say or what i have to share gives the impression that ‘you know nothing’. I end up looking stupid and dumb most of the times.

Since he has lived many years in Australia and has travelled a lot, he is much more up to date about everything but that doesn’t mean that if I don’t know of a certain thing he knows, I am stupid?

I now feel the need to show myself as some one smart and intelligent. I guess I should watch more movies, read more books, update myself by reading online and basically keep myself up to date and basically look tech-savvy. He isn’t pompous about what he knows and doesn’t but when he asks me about something that i don’t know of he gives a reaction that’s like “hunh! okay so you don’t know about that either.” Its not really about some one thinking you know nothing but it leads to many things in the future. Gradually, your say means nothing since this impression exists. I have seen it happen with my mother. She is a very intelligent woman and smart intellectually as well but since she never spoke out or basically advertised her knowledge in discussions, she was walked all over many times. I don’t want that happening to me as well.

talk to him using ONLY the ‘famous quotes’…if he doesn’t know any of these then he has to prove himself to you!