Re: Your help needed
Plusha,
Women usually gain weight, get wrinkles, get stretch marks, sometimes even lose hair during pregnancies and whatnot. A few pounds is NOTHING.
Respect is EVERYTHING between a couple. Its a deal breaker and a deal maker for me.
If a man verbally abuses me, swears, curses and doesnt observe any boundaries in front of the woman he wants to marry...he either doesnt know what marriage is or doesnt really want to marry you.
In your case, I dont believe your guy knows what marriage and/or commitment is all about. This doesnt mean he doesnt love you...he doesnt know how to love you so you dont end up leaving him someday.
Trust me, it wont be him who thinks twice about this relationship...it will be you at some point if this continues.