No, I was smart enough to get out before kids and that was actually my motivator…the clock was ticking and if I were ever to have kids, I knew it could not be with that one. So I left with that in mind - that I would either never have kids or I would have them with one who could be a great dad and husband.
And PCG, even if you get back to pre-preg weight very quickly, your body is forever changed. The tummy skin sags and is marred by stretch marks. Not a pretty sight to most…but this prince that I married tells me that its beautiful because it shows what I went thru to give him his 3 beautiful kids. If you have a husband who gets abusive over a couple of pounds, what will he say when faced with purple stretch marks and a sagging tummy? Not to mention occasional incontinence and all the other nasty stuff that comes along with giving birth. And think about when the babies are born and have to deal with “Mr Perfection”…he will make a nightmare of a dad.