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November 3, 2009, 3:38pm
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Plusha, you arent thinking about this the right way. When you say that your guy does have some good qualities and what if you end up with someone even worse than him…
This is how an abusive relationship begins. After a few years of relentless abuse, you begin to think that you just need to try harder, that you deserve the emotional beat-downs, that you may never be able to measure up because you just arent good enough.
I was stuck in a marriage like this for years. When I finally grabbed myself by the bootstraps and got myself out of it, I went on to meet my prince, my knight in shining armor. And I’ve had so far, 11 years of marital bliss. I thank God each and every day for the blessings of my life. My only regret is that I let it go on for so long.
None of us are saying the things that you want to hear, no one has given you a magical recipe of how to change your guy. But its early, you have the opportunity to get out of this now…and the opportunity to find a real prince for yourself. Its time to think with your head and leave your heart out of it.
MO3 did u have any kids with ur ex? or all r 3 kids frm ur husband? i think its easier to leave wen there r no kids in the scene. otherwise its v difficult…