Re: Your help needed
Ask him one question. What if god forbid he broke his arm after marriage. Will he agree to free you then? Because you are marrying a "perfect" person, so he should remain "perfect" if he expects you to be perfect.
I guess he need counseling before marriage. Fitness is good but asking for 100% from others is just ridiculous
Gaining little bit weight should not be a issue in any strong relationship. if my wife gains a bit of weight, I do encourage her to lose it but never gets after her for it. I my self have a tendency to gain weight very quickly (I am among those jin k barey main kehtey hain k mitti-pather bhee khaeen tu we weight barh jata hai), but my wife never pushes me hard although she changes out routine and diet un-noticeably. I start seeing brown bread instead of white etc .....