Re: Your help needed
I agree with bbbb, if its not your weight then its going to be some other issue and when he finds another issue then he will just carry on verbally abusing u in the same way until u listen and do as he says. From ur posts I can see he has complete disregard for ur feelings. Ok fair enough he's telling u to lose weight because its not healthy etc etc but there is no excuse for the verbal abuse esp since ur saying that he says such filthy things to u. U may as well get used to this because uv already said ur not leaving no matter what and I dont see how u can make him change since u said he always wants things his way. The only way it will really hit him is if u seriously sit down n have a talk with him and tell him u will LEAVE if he doesnt stop abusing u and change his behaviour towards u and respect u more. Filthy abuse= lack of respect in my book. Would he tolerate this behaviour from u? I think not.