Re: Your help needed
Personally, I feel that for him once your weight issue is out of the way then it will be something else. This is a behaviour that you will have to put up with the rest of your life. What happens after your pregnancy? Your body WILL change, whether he likes it or not.
You need to talk to him about respect, if he is using abusive language then you should think twice about this relationship. Lack of respect will lead to other abuse, because verbal is only the start.