tell me, is it necessary for a couple to do ‘it’ on their first night of marriage? as muslims, we have something called a walimah…which is a function held to celebrate the consummation of the marriage…but what if the couple got cold feet on their first nite? do u still go ahead with this walimah thingy, and pretend to everyone else that u did do it, when in actual fact you didn’t? besides, i can see myself being verrry uncomfortable on ma first night…