Have u had any?
How is it like?
Re: Your experience of living with a perfectonist.
Nope.
The house is quite clean but you gotta put up with all that nagging :(
Re: Your experience of living with a perfectonist.
no wht about u?
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yeah my sister...she wouldn't let me attend her wedding coz I is too ugly and fat. But who gives a fruit about her wedding!
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Yes and its horrible. The experience was with my sister. Shes whines, and nags all the time and will make you feel like a piece of lard if one thing is slightly off of how she imagined it. You can never live up to a perfectionist's expectations.
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in the end, the perfectionist bowed to the slacker.
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no wht about u?
The house is quite clean but you gotta put up with all that nagging :(
This.
and no matter how well i do ,its never enough .for instance i scored 80/100 instead of being grateful that i tired*, the perfectionist i know wudnt be happy with the 80.
and it in turn i feel whenever i am doing something,its never good enough because this perfectionist has set too much of high standard.*
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^ Either they could appreciate you for the 80/100 or they could tell you how it all could've been better, especially when there is obvious room for improvement somewhere. Third option would be to act the considerate sort and try and be the best of both worlds, for example be considerate enough to praise yet critical enough to point out the flaws and encourage/motivate to do better. Choice is subjective really.
I'd choose to be the 3rd option, with say, my own child.
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My father - always moaning and never happy. Its so much fun!
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Luckily none.
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My chacha when i lived in California for a bit. He was generally never happy with anything at all. And perfectionist generally annoy the heck out of me..which is why i told him on his face that you ain't perfect either buddy. Ya until now, we don't get along well at all.