Re: Your EX knows you're married but she STILL wants to meet you...
Why does she still have your contact info after 5 years? In any case, find out why she wants to meet up. Now remember even if the reason for her wanting to meet up is innocent, still place yourself in your wife's shoes. What if her Ex (if she had one) were to contact her, just for the same reason...and you didn't know...how well would you swallow this information if you found out later...EVEN if its all innocent and just meeting to chit chat whatever...no bad intentions....just think about it....marriage is the most important thing, so make sure not to put it at any risk
Re: Your EX knows you're married but she STILL wants to meet you...
afro well said U r absloutly rite Kuch bhi karna se pehle soocho, acchaa kia aap ne uss se milne se pehle hum sub se mashwara kar liya, dehka kitne acache mashware mile aap ko . Amaaal karo bus aab
Re: Your EX knows you’re married but she STILL wants to meet you…
I hate it when Xes come back cuz they need help or czu they want advice or any of that BS, baki log mar gaye kya? Why out of millions of guys ask that one guy who belongs to someone else? Esepecially if that someone doesnt want you around cuz of what happeend in the past :o
“Oooo look my house burnt down , poor me, no one to console me:teary1:”
Someone needs to tell em, no one gives a $hit
Re: Your EX knows you're married but she STILL wants to meet you...
Phat,
Not all relationships end in disaster. Some people decide to part ways on perfectly friendly terms because other aspects of their lives do not match up.
Re: Your EX knows you're married but she STILL wants to meet you...
obviously u should be telling ur wife this....no point of keeping her in the dark...she is bound to find out....and if she already knows about ur ex, bring her along...the more the merrier....hehe
Re: Your EX knows you're married but she STILL wants to meet you...
Afridi, Zakkk, mera matlab tha ke IF i had an ex-flame (which I don't) and he wanted to meet up with me, i'd make my hubby come along. That is, depending on the nature of the past relationship and WHY we parted ways. This solution is taking into consideration my personality and the nature of my husband-t0-be. Now since I don't have any ex-bfs, there's no real problem there so this is all hypothetical.
Re: Your EX knows you're married but she STILL wants to meet you...
Take you wife with you on the meet.
I mean this is not "WO WALI" mulaqat with X, why not introduce your wife to her? If your X has "other plans" in mind, she will leave your alone after first meeting and if she just want to catch up or want some help in any problem, she will never mind meeting your wife......
Re: Your EX knows you're married but she STILL wants to meet you...
If you are married, you have no business meeting with an ex-BF or GF without your spouse present. What do you hope to accomplish by meeting with her? I seriously doubt that she has good intentions in meeting with you.
Actually you shouldn't even meet her with your spouse present. To bring your wife into this may make your wife suspicious of you. Does she know that this girl ever existed?
Re: Your EX knows you’re married but she STILL wants to meet you…
In some cases the perspective they need is one they can not get it from others. I had one my ex contact me and her only question was about some of her habits and how much I felt they were holding her back from meeting the right people or maintaining a serious relationship. She wanted nothing more than that from me. It was a perspective that she may have gotten some advise from her friends but her friends did nto date her, and were not at one point romantically involved, so to ask someone who
I had an ex contact me 11 years after I last saw her just because she moved to a city where some of our common friends form college were and she did not kow how to get in touch with them, she found my info thru alumni directory and reached out to me, I gave her contact info and then aside from a few polite email exchanges we lost contact again
lets not make too much of the thing, figure out what she needs, maybe you would be of help to somoene who is reaching out for somthing, maybe its something else in which case you can just walk away..
Re: Your EX knows you're married but she STILL wants to meet you...
I had an ex contact me 11 years after I last saw her just because she moved to a city where some of our common friends form college were and she did not kow how to get in touch with them, she found my info thru alumni directory and reached out to me, I gave her contact info and then aside from a few polite email exchanges we lost contact again
lets not make too much of the thing, figure out what she needs, maybe you would be of help to somoene who is reaching out for somthing, maybe its something else in which case you can just walk away..
Honestly it just depends on the ex, i have had bad experience with mine who cant even be considered an ex cuz he was only a potential but stalked me for over a year after i was engaged. And I know if he calls me today, it cant possibly for something he needs and I know a lot of friends of mine who have had to go through the whole ex-bs and ti wasnt pleasant.
, poor me, no one to console me:teary1:”