sara516, touche!
uh, i can't say that's been a problem for me unfortunately, as most of the men I find amazing, usually find me annoying. :D
U had answered Sara's question earlier, PCG. :)
You said that you wouldn't want to prevent someone from enjoying their wedding.
And I agree with that. Hopefully the person who used to have a crush on you......has completely gotten over you..........and is sincerely happy with their current partner. In such a situation, it's okay to attend the wedding.
Although, if you have doubts that the person is still pining over you (and you can't always know if they are or aren't)...............then it's best to skip the wedding (if you can)........and just send a congratulatory card later. That way they can enjoy their wedding and not be haunted by your face in the crowd.
Although........sometimes a crush might be offended that you came......and equally offended that you didn't. So, I guess I would try to do (in my power) what I feel would make the situation less awkward for the individual and myself.