Re: Your childhood: academically
What's "decent education"? It depends on what you want to do with your life.
It's offensive that you think kids who worry about grades and the "small" increments between an 89 and a 100 are whiny.
I'm a big believer in fate. I say, **do your best, **and leave the rest up to Allah (swt).
I can't say for people who go to Harvard or NYU, but I do know that alot of my peers have great jobs, and are putting their education to the best use they can. If you have the drive, the ambition, then you can succeed. But if you're a lazy person, going to good schools are of no use whatsoever.