Mabrook, not that I need to justify what I put however I just wanted to add that I was not making a generalisation about the sexualisation of media-I was talking about Bollywood films-nothing more.
Media uses any avenues it can to generate sales-I know this from studying within this field for 5 years.
As for not being able to control everything children watch. Indeed it maybe impossible whilst children are not in ones care. However if a child is taught about the rights and wrongs and what a parent will and won't accept it shouldn't really pose a problem.
I think going back to the thread Mehnaz has covered the fact that lying to parents is a very bad thing and one of the biggest mistakes (in my opinion) a child can make. But I still wonder about waht ground rules are in place for a 14 year old finds dating acceptable. Actually finding dating acceptable at all begs the question of what is deemed right and wrong in the child's mind.